• 3

  • Model for truly feeling good

    A simpler universal way

  • What does it take to feel good

    MASTER

  • What does it take to feel good? That’s the book – that’s the topic

    Break it down to the most important, then break it down to their majors. Then help people combine

  • How does this actually help ALL - ?

    Am I trying to change the way people think to change the way they feel? Is that an issue - ?

  • All trying to figure out how to feel good, but also what feelings mean

    Large conflicts can create harmony - ?

    Ability to understand and SHARE

    Book unfolds in a way that entices you to keep reading more - ?

  • Everyone does EVERYTHING for how it feels

    SO - we need to help people FEEL better, in every way possible

  • Is the nature of feeling ELUSIVE - ?

    Does it need to be somewhat ‘unknown’, or ‘often rediscovered’ - ?

  • FIRST PRINCIPLES

  • THE MAJORS:

    Learning how to feel good

    The universe gives meaning through finite time and contrast

  • Just as there is the opportunity to do good, there is the balance

  • The Feels HQ

  • Either

    Growth

    Sign of you doing something not quite right

    Sign of someone else trying to figure out how to feel good, and causing waves in the process

  • What am I doing? What do I want?

  • What is life?

  • Our ability to truly feel good

    Comes down to:

  • NEW

  • HOW TO TRULY FEEL GREAT

  • Done

  • 2.0

  • Guidelines

  • MAYBE

  • WDYW

  • I feels great now that:

  • WHY DO THIS - ?

  • WHAT DO YOU WANT?

  • MAYBE

  • NEW SESSION

  • FEEL GOOD COACH

  • Having massive expectations works if you are working towards them AND IF YOU ARE ACCOMPLISHING THE MAJOR FUNCTION - TRULY FEELING GREAT AND HELPING OTHERS TO FEEL GREAT

  • The purpose of your lives is to DO what truly feels good - the reason WHY WE ARE HERE, WHY WE WERE BORN

    You find it by paying attention to and honouring how you feel, improving how you feel and act BECAUSE OF HOW YOU FEEL

    We do things to FEEL, and then we either GET BETTER st CHOOSING WHAT TO DO TO FEEL WHAT YOU WANT

  • I help people feel good

    I didn’t fully with Carol, I tried, but I felt wronged and hurt

  • THE FEELS

  • We love media because it helps us to feel something.

    Learning how to feel great - that is what it is all for.

  • THE BOOK

  • NW GUIDELINES

  • How to help the most amount of people - ?

    Direct, education, or indirect feel good - ?

  • The best way to help the world

  • We’re all just trying to feel good.

    People who feel good using power or force or control are also just trying to feel good. For whatever reason, they either don’t know a better way to feel good, or their current lifestyle leads to a poor model for feeling good.

  • Balance of feeling great

    What are the guidelines to feeling good - ?
    Do what feels good, for you and all around you. There are some things that we shouldn’t do in certain context

  • Feeling is the meaning of life
    Learning how to TRULY feel good, for us and for others is the purpose of our lives
    Lots of things feel good and bad. We each will go through many different types of feelings / experiences.
    You’ve got to get to the best feel good experiences - that’s the whole point.
    If how you feel good makes others feel bad, you lose, others lose. WHY - ?
    Your experience is UNIQUE TO YOU - only you can figure out how to truly feel great - whatever that means - finding your purpose, living your purpose, living appreciation

  • APPRECIATION

  • It’s all about FUN - feeling great

    Don’t be so serious

  • WHY - ?

  • HOW TO BEST HELP PEOPLE

  • THE FEELS HQ

  • FEEL GREAT WORLD

  • STOCK

  • THOUGHTS AND FEELIES

  • Intention - knowing what you want

  • Do it to feel good

  • Appreciation

    Turning expectation into appreciation

  • We are all here doing the same thing - trying to figure out what it takes to truly feel good.

  • Realising everything we do is to help ourselves, and someone else to feel good.
    If that is the game, then being better at helping all to feel good is mastery.

  • How to self assess, so you do what truly feels good. So you build a model for truly feeling good

  • THE MAJORS

  • Appreciation

  • Consumption

  • Creation

  • INTENTION
    EXPECTATION
    APPRECIATION

  • Death and explotation

  • Universal Solution / Path

  • Services

    Life changing service, it is worth whatever it is worth to you

    Value BEFORE reward

  • SIMPLE EFFECTIVE SOLUTIONS:

    Appreciation for ALL

    Learning what it takes to feel good

  • APPRECIATION

  • What does it take to feel good?

    We are all trying to figure this out, throughout every moment of our lives.

    Until we figure this out, we live our lives in the search to answer this question, whether we take notice or not. When we don’t take notice, we create a lot of conflict until we take notice…

    No one can tell you how to feel good. It’s up to each and every one of us to figure out the answer. However, just like anything else we learn in life - study can help.

    Take better notice of what you care about, and what those you care about… care about…

  • Add a disclaimer - if you haven’t felt for a while, it might come flooding back. Or if you find it hard to feel - here is how to find help - you’re not alone.

  • MAJORS

    It’s completely your own responsibility to feel good - don’t give it to anyone else, they can only let you down because they are looking after themselves.

  • UNIVERSAL FEELS THROUGH

  • POSITVE MODELS

  • Other topics to cover

  • NEGATIVE MODELS

  • How to:

  • Other topics to cover

  • Is there another way? Refocus people onto things they FEEL good about and work from there - ?

    Ways we feel:
    Talking WITH people
    Music
    Video
    Food and drink

    SO - beautiful movement that supports all the good in the world, so that great public world figures join in translating information to all those that may listen

    What about those who need the help most?
    They likely are living in poor models for feeling good because of their nature and nurture+

    They need reinforcement of the good they likely know and feel, and then redirection where best

  • Who to help?

    Af warlord

  • We are all on a journey of feeling.

    Particular expression of music can help us feel, and to share in the feeling. We tend to like music that feels familiar - THAT HAS AN EFFECT THE FEELS FAMILIAR - pain or challenge, etc.

  • We’re all trying to figure out what feelings mean - what they are trying to tell us, what we should do because of those feelings, what to do to have more / different feelings…

    IS THAT THE FOCUS - WHAT DOES THE FEELING MEAN - ?

  • We feel, based on the affect things have on our meaning, and how others respond to our actions.

  • When we feel good about the wrong things, we experience and create conflict, until we learn

  • Conflict and challenge come from wrong choices and actions, from ourselves and others, and as a necessary part of life (contrast and challenge)

  • We’re all doing the same thing, but at different points in the journey - LEARNING HOW TO TRULY FEEL GOOD

  • Realising the truth - LEARNING HOW TO TRULY FEEL GOOD - IN THIS MOMENT, AND FOR FUTURE MOMENTS, FOR OURSELVES AND FOR OTHERS, FOR THE BEST LIFE POSSIBLE, THROUGHOUT ALL PHASES AND CONTEXTS

  • APPRECIATION
    PURPOSE

  • Bottom line - helping people feel good about and for the right things helps the universe.

    What is right - ?

    We can be conditioned to feel good, to feel alive about the wrong things.
    How do incase our awareness for what is right - ?

  • FEEL GOOD COACH
    Collection of things
    Your ability to feel those things
    Your ability to do what feels good, while being brave to face the challenging

    What is the best way to help people feel good?
    Helping them learn how to do it for themselves
    How do we do that though

  • WHY

  • 2 MAJORS to truly feeling great

    1. Appreciation
    2. Know what you want
  • Do things for the right feelings

    Learn to do things to help those you care about to FEEL GOOD

  • Doing it to FEEL

  • PROS

    Being conscious of what feels good is the best way to learn
    Otherwise, it’s trial and error, perhaps most of the time - BLIND

    The greatest truth we all need to know is that life is feeling = we do everything for feeling. True evolution comes from living FOR and WITH the BEST feelings

  • CONS

    People may not want to be too analytical… Nor should they be

  • To help the universe

    WHILE helping myself

  • Life is learning.

    Learning is understanding expectations.

    Undestanding and learning expectations involves conflict through to appreciation.

  • Our ability to FEEL

    To feel the moment, and to feel good about the moment, wether it be good or bad (learning from the bad)

  • After you’ve done something BAD

  • We’re all on the same team, some of us are just earlier in the journey. Treat everyone, including ourselves with love, so we can all be better together.

  • 1.

  • THE MAJORS

  • What’s the point?

  • IN THIS MOMENT

  • What does it take for YOU to feel good?

  • What does it take for THOSE YOU CARE about to feel good?

  • Appreciation

  • Expectations

  • Being good at something

  • Self assessment

  • I am no longer a fearful person - I do things to feel truly great - I do things for and fuelled by love and appreciation for all.

  • When did I feel most useful?
    When I was helping people.

    The problem is - you need people to be in need of help…
    On top of that, look at the complex dynamic of helping certain people, what that means for you…

  • I’m sick and done with trying to hard – with unnecessary tension, and just a poor use of my life energy. I am me – my voice resonates at this level, my thoughts and feelings flow at this pace – I am me.

  • I’m done using my head more than my heart. I’m done living without love As my main driving force. I’m done with judgements and expectations – I’m here

  • We live in a feelings world
    All we do is feel
    All we do in life is influence and affect how others feel

  • All we have is feeling
    How we feel, and how we help others to feel

  • Everything that happens is an opportunity to learn how to feel appreciation, to truly feel great

  • How we help others feel

  • Responsibility

  • Expectations

  • Appreciation

  • We’re here to learn how to truly feel good

  • How we feel is what we get - we attract how we feel

    • how others feel around us
  • Change how you feel - it’s the best way to get something different, that you want

  • Write it like you’re helping a friend - visualise and feel the conversation

  • Learn how to fight kindly together - ? / RESOLVE - ?

  • Tempting fate VS As Is

  • What do we want? To feel good

  • What does it take for you to feel good? (IN THIS MOMENT)

  • We need to give ourselves permission to feel good

  • Everything is feeling - feeling is the meaning of our lives

  • It’s not only our mission, but our RESPONSIBILITY TO LEARN HOW TO TRULY FEEL GREAT

  • We do things to feel good, however its all trial and error until we really learn

    This is the problem with the world 0 civilisation on every scale

    Could expand more - 3

  • Better education and understanding is what we all need. But, education in the RIGHT areas - FEELING+

    Could expand more - 3

  • Why don’t people feel great?

  • Turning expectation into appreciation

    This is the greatest skill we can and must each learn. Without this skill, we’re destined to feel frustrated, angry and conflicted, simply because people, situations and anything else aren’t behaving as we expect.

  • Improve your feedback loop - SENSES (awareness through to feelings awareness)

    Living through your senses

  • Best ways to feel good

  • Common ways to feel good

  • SHARING (SHOWING) APPRECIATION

    Appreciation felt with the help of others, that is not shared is not shared with them and others you come into contact with is appreciation wasted.

  • Who do you CARE ABOUT?

    How do THEY like to feel good?

    The distinction between how you like to feel good and how someone else likes to feel good is a common stumbling block - many mistakenly take action that they themselves like, without realising that we each have similar AND DIFFERENT needs and wants

    Taking the right action for the right reasons shows that you understand the person you care for - and at the end of the day - don’t we all just want to feel understood and cared for?

  • APPRECIATION IS EVERYTHING

    When we appreciate, we feel good

    When we feel good, we are actually appreciating through feeling

  • The longest journey we will ever take is from our brain to our heart

  • We’re all here to feel good
    We’re all here to learn how to truly feel good, for ourselves and for those we care about
    It’s YOUR responsibility to feel good
    It’s your ROLE to help those you care about to learn how to and to feel good (if they are under your care, or you simply care for them) (you will also feel good too)

  • Deeper understanding is needed

  • I have reached 30,000 people, helping to improve and enrich their lives.

    I have attracted over $200,000 in profit, and the number is growing everyday.

  • I have my White Mercedes 2016

  • Because the whole world will prosper when we honour and accomplish our life mission TOGETHER

    We’ve been moving backwards - our societies operate in a way that don’t help and improve how ALL LIVING THINGS FEEL

  • OUTLINE

  • What do YOU want?

  • HOW TO FEEL GREAT

  • HOW TO HELP OTHERS FEEL GREAT

  • MUST ADD

    When we don’t know what we want to feel, we’ll keep bashing against the edges and people - searching for feelings by making others feel GREATLY (usually badly)

  • Perspective examples / cycle disruptors - ?

  • With countless books and resources available to help you be successful - the one thing that matters most is - what do you actually want to do?

  • The order:

    We need to know what we want, then know how to get it, then do what it takes

    FIRST - we need to know how to get the understanding of what we want

  • Worst of all - if you have lived your life like this for an extended period of time, you may have become good at not feeling good.

  • When you don’t know what you want, it may seem almost impossible to actually accomplish it. After all - how can you accomplish anything if you don’t actually know what IT is?

  • The major problem is that many seem to not either learn from their experiences, improving their wants, or more so - many people do not seem to know how to learn from some or all of their experiences to develop and move towards what they ACTUALLY WANT.
    Like anything universal, developing great Models for Feeling and Models for Wanting are often overlooked. This is similar to learning how to breath better, or eat better, or sleep better. Once a person has been around for ‘long enough’, it seems as though they know enough to get by, to get enough, so there is little point in learning more. Besides a life long journey of discovery, one of the major reasons why this book was written was because of the state of our world. There will always be outliers in any society, who’s actions are almost impossible to understand. For the majority of people however, much of the conflict seems to come from a lack of understanding. This understanding isn’t based in scholastic IQ, it’s more of a systemic problem that comes down to the meaning of our lives - how we FEEL.

  • GREATEST LESSONS

  • Feeling is EVERYTHING - we live in a feelings world

    FULL SECTION ON THIS

    ON HOLD

  • The mission - Truly feeling great

  • How to truly feel great - for ourselves

  • How to help others truly feel great

  • FEEDBACK LOOP

  • When we don’t know how to feel good, or even that that is the point - we do things to FEEL something.

    So much crime occurs from either lashing out to feel something greatly, or out of believed necessity.

  • QUOTES

  • Steps

  • Ways to reach people

  • How to BEST effectively help people

  • Payment

  • NEW

  • We are here to feel good. If we are not FEELING, if we are instead thinking life, we are not living it. We are destined to be hit by life (feeling) in reaction to a great and powerful universal life moment

    I have in the past too easily detached from life, perhaps scared of losing things

  • FEEL GOOD SOLUTIONS

  • Write two parts

    For Jordan

    For Paul

    Thinking that you are right
    Religious doctrine that doesn’t not serve the betterment of mankind now, IN THE MOMENT AND TIME does nothing

    ALSO

    Part for M - overeating

  • Do you know what you want?

    Are you doing what you want to?

    Do you know what you want to do?

  • Do you know that feeling great is the point?

    Both never-ending the journey and destination?

  • Expectation VS Appreciation

    What do you focus on most?
    Most of the time?
    Most of your effort / energy?
    Most reactively?

  • VENT

    Some people just need a good vent, to release so they can fill up on

  • First 20mins session FREE

    What feels good for you?
    Different types of consumption:

    Different types of action and creation:

  • Evolving your model for feeling great

  • # How do you help those you care about to feel good?

  • Learning how to feel good

  • COMMON MISTAKES

    I assume others will get to the same understanding as fast (or FASTER) than it took me

  • We are here to do something. Many don’t live a purpose. Many don’t find their purpose. Many don’t realise the purpose in front of them.

    What is your KARMA ?

  • Feeling is EVERYTHING

  • How to feel good

  • Do you know that feeling is why we do anything and everything?

    All we have is how we feel, and how we help others to feel - THAT IS EVERYTHING THERE IS

  • We’re here to learn how to truly feel great

  • There are many different ways to feel great - the most effective is through TURNING EXPECTATION INTO APPRECIATION

  • Answer these questions:

  • When are expectations OK?

  • When someone breaks your expectations

  • How to share appreciation
    How to show you care to those you care about

  • Feeling great - consumption (food)

  • Feeling great - consumption (what you take in)

  • Finding the balance point

  • The whole point is to feel good

    YOU must feel good doing it, and it must help all feel good

  • Help them realise feeling is the WHY (truly feel good, you and all) Help them find better ways to feel good

  • Improve our ability to feel and share appreciation - GET BACK TO APPRECIATION

    Everything is for feeling good.

    We appreciate what we feel good about. It can be tricky to just ‘feel good’, as there are many factors that make up feeling good. However, we can improve our ability to feel appreciation whenever we want to.

  • Feeling good via:
    Expectation OR NUMBNESS OR Appreciation in:

    • Consumption
    • Creation
    • Connection

    Consuming to feel good
    Creating to feel good (taking action)
    Connecting to feel good

  • Let things change your expectations for the better

    But don’t live through your expectations

    Live through appreciation

  • Dealing with others who don’t understand as you do

  • We must know what we want
    Know what it takes to get what we want Feel good about doing what it takes

    Ultimately - we want to feel good
    What it takes to feel good: (from where you are now)
    Appreciation
    Knowing your purpose / what you like doing to feel good +to help others feel good LIVING THAT
    Constantly learning how to truly feel good

    People simply don’t know that feeling good is what it’s all about for all of us. That we each play a role in each others feel good missions.

    WHY FEEL GOOD - ?

  • Unmet / broken expectations can hurt

    They can force us to question what we once thought and felt about things - redefining our life and more specific contextual perspectives - ie. how we feel about ourselves, others, etc.

  • Wants and intentions are good.
    NOT so much when they are tied to expectations.

  • Feeling great is the mission, however that does not mean we shouldn’t have bad feelings and times. We all need contrast.

  • Feelings, especially in the moment can be hard to process. When we live for feelings, we can get stuck in the tricky moments.
    Paul

    Live for feeling good
    We got through tension to feel the release - ?

  • Group / frame appreciation in the different directions / relationships

    Work
    Loved ones

    OR

    Unmet expectation moments

    OR

    Combine both?

  • SKILLS

  • What do you do to feel good?
    Do you even live to feel good? Or do you delay it, or forsake it altogether? (For a someday feel good moment / milestone, or never feeling good?)

    Everything is consumption. Everything we see, eat and sense is consumption OF TH FEELINGS that come from that consumption.

    FIRST AND FOREMOST - don’t consume anything without truly feeling it. Everything consumed should be appreciated and / or learned from, so that you can feel good / better in the future (better than today)

  • We do everything to feel something

    We all want to feel good

    So we are forever learning how to feel good

    Generally, we feel bad in response to others feeling bad - so the solution is to ourselves and others FEEL GREAT
    Everything we do should be to help all feel great - that’s the only way the system will work.

  • Help people to feel something - that’s the point!

  • Unless they ask, people don’t want advice - they want to feel good

  • LESSON 1

    We are here to feel, and we are here to learn how to truly feel good, for ourselves and for those we care about

  • How do you currently feel good?

  • LESSON 2

    The greatest ways to feel great

  • Feel your purpose - that’s when you can do it

  • 3 MOST EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUES FOR FEELING GREAT

  • Inspire and share knowledge and wisdom through VIDEO - SO THAT BILLIONS OF PEOPLE CAN LEARN THE BASICS

    Share deeper concepts and wisdom through one of the greatest books of all time

    Create an online course / website that teaches people how to feel great, truly and universally, in the many life contexts WE ALL EXPERIENCE

  • FEELINGS UNI

  • Modules

    Help people vent to feel good

    Help people create to feel good

    Help people consume something better to feel good

  • We are here to feel. What and how we feel is literally the meaning of our lives

  • KISS - teach people how to APP - feel, show, have

    Teach people how to help others feel good

    Teach people how to sense the experience. Also to change perspective (‘WHAT IF’)

  • We each have to work through our expectations feelings, so that we can get to appreciation feelings

  • Some missions to feel great, include lesser short term other people feel great actions, and more longer term and larger focus feel great outcomes. A balance of both is essential though. (Spooner + Musk)

  • Say it without need, without expectations

    Say it to feel good and to help others feel good

  • Help people improve the ability to feel good, to feel appreciation

  • We all feel lost at times. I feel lost in the mornings, disconnected from things.

    I just realised that I struggle UNTIL I feel appreciation. Appreciation comes in the form of consumption or creation with a great feeling.

  • People seem to find it hard to realise that everything is for feeling

  • FEELIES

  • EXPECTATIONS OK WHEN:

    You hire someone to do something, and you clearly communicate what you want and need

    What is true and right

  • Knowing what you want in any moment

    Minimum want, through to the universal want of truly feeling good

  • Get clear on what you want - until you know, you’ll be living a reactive life, based on whatever registers on your feelings feedback loop radar plus what you’re general perspective and awareness ability are.

  • Ultimately - knowing what you want means knowing what feels good

  • Simply taking action to feel good -
    live to feel good, don’t just take life for granted, in every moment*

    Being better at feeling good, for you AND others (imbalance in either can hurt greatly)

  • Appreciation is the ultimate universal persepctive and feeling to truly feel great, for you and for others.

  • Expectations are necessary - they are part of learning, hey are part of wanting.

    Having the right expectations, improving expectations, improving he context Andy cause of broken expectations Andy how we repeat or pivot accordingly - these are the necessary skills to master.

  • How to feel more appreciation:

  • Every action we take needs to truly feel good, for ourselves and all those we care for and are involved.

    Action devoid of this, that does not honour this universal WHY, must eventually lead to conflict in some manner, often preventable and unnecessary.

    To begin with, we need to get back to feeling. Feeling is the WHY of life, the meaning of life in it’s most literal regard.

  • Line of sight
    Wether we have a reduced line of sight, or we ignore what we see, and the outcome is taking action that does not lift all boats -

    THE AWARENESS OF LINE OF SIGHT - to profit, many become ignorant to the flow on outcomes, justifying the exploitation / poor model for truly feeling good

  • How to lift all boats when hurt…?

  • INTENTION

    Knowing what you want

  • APPRECIATION

    The ultimate perspective

  • EXPECTATION

    Turning expectation into appreciation+

  • Animals dying, for human food consumption

  • Sadly, capitalism often necessitates the exploration of many, for the profit of a few

    Eg - technology, devices, money+

  • How to help ALL truly feel good

    While it’s each of our responsibility to truly feel good…
    It’s also our responsibility to help all others truly feel good

  • Understanding and appreciating the function of things - ESPECIALLY all that you have been taking for granted

    FOR: people who don’t know what they want, or who don’t seem to be happy with enough

  • Living / being fuelled by appreciation

  • Knowing what you want

  • Finding the good in the day

    HOW can those who have lost much find the good?

  • Work to improve the expectations situations, WHILE feeling all the appreciation possible

    What am I sharing and selling?
    A way to think?
    A way to feel?
    WHAT IS IT - ?

  • Appreciation for all you take for granted

    Turn exp into app

    How to feel the way you want

    When is it right to have expectations, and what to do with them?

  • The future of the human civilisation depends on our ability to learn how to appreciate all that we take for granted, and our ability to turn expectation into appreciation, and to appreciate how others feel.

    This is the way to help the world, but how can we entice people to care

  • Sharing what you feel
    Feeling it, not just thinking it

  • Expectations being met
    Appreciation
    Learning

  • Helping others to feel good

  • Purpose + Knowing what you want

  • Consumption

  • Action

  • Connection - love, compassion, friendship

  • Being good at something

  • Having something

  • Helping to make something better

  • Helping others to feel good
    Purpose
    Knowing what you want
    Consumption
    Action
    Connection - love, compassion, friendship
    Being good at something
    Having something
    Contrast
    Helping to make something better
    Being understood

    Venting / expressing ourselves

  • Feeling apathetic - numb and disconnected

  • There is a reason WHY people suck…
    They don’t suck, however

    Janice - boss who’s a bitch - there’s a reason WHY - and that must be addressed+

  • It can be very difficult to help others feel good, if we ourselves do not feel good.

    Much conflict occurs outside of us, when we feel conflict inside of us.

  • Life is feeling - doing things and being aware of things to feel good, along with doing things that have an effect on how others feel.

    Life is helping ourselves and others to truly feel good.

    If you are experiencing a lot of inner and outer conflict, you likely either don’t know that life is how you feel and how you help others to feel, OR you don’t yet know what it takes to feel good, for you and for those you care about.

  • Must show people what you care about - otherwise how can they ever truly know you, to also help you feel good - ?

  • Having control / power over others

    Needing validation from others(same as others meeting your expectations)

    Hurting others
    (Perhaps you don’t realise this is how you feel good - many who do this aren’t great at helping others, especially those they care about to feel good - OR they don’t notice…) SO they make others feel something GREATLY, that THEY can notice.

  • Get the cacklers to want to learn

  • Where do you suck at feeling good?
    Believing the good feeling - understanding how you feel

  • We are living moments of feeling - a SPECTRUM OF FEELING

    We share greater moments, such as sex

  • Our expectations
    What we give meaning
    What / who we care about

  • What do you NEED to do every day?

  • What feels good?

    (This is also a need, but a personal one)

    What do you do everyday that feels good? DO YOU DO ANYTHING?

  • All we do is FEEL and do things that others FEEL

  • All well and good, but what about WHEN they know this - ?

    Or - how to know this - ?

    Learning from how you feel
    Learning how to have a great impact
    Learning how to achieve your purpose once discovered

    Is the purpose the same - to help ourselves and others feel great in ways we care about - ?

  • Mel and family - B

  • Tension and release IS the mechanism

  • It’s not always possible to feel good, and it should NOT be. However, we can learn to feel better in the moments that are challenging.

    The tough moments help us learn

  • People do bad or wrong things because they do not know much better in the moment, at that time.

  • It can feel impossible to right the wrongs, EVEN IF

  • We’re all just trying to figure out how to feel good. Conflict and contrast are necessary parts of life - they may actually be designed to help us feel true appreciation, to ascend.

    There are many aspects to truly feeling great:

    Learning how to turn expectation into appreciation

    Learning

    Being good at something

    Knowing what you want

    Knowing how to help those you care about to truly feel good

    OTHER MAJORS

    The most important skill is turning expectation into appreciation. All conflict and contrast exists in a way to help us learn and feel appreciation for what we have. The contrast is one of the purest mechanisms for breaking through the very common cycle of taking things for granted

  • It’s OUR OWN responsibility to LEARN how to truly feel good. In the face or wake, and because of EVERYTHING that happens in our lives.

  • To learn how to truly feel great, through many different ways, especially through appreciation.

    Once you feel that appreciation, THEN SHARE IT - LET IT FUEL YOUR ACTIONS - this COMPLETES the circle, the circle of life :)

  • There are MANY reasons to do something, but the truest is because it TRULY FEELS GOOD

  • How do you truly feel in this moment?

    Not what you reactively think in response to your expectations, but what do you choose to focus on? What do you FEEL, in your body, your breath, gravity+

  • What does it take for you to FEEL

    For you to feel appreciation?

  • TECHNIQUES

  • Why do you do anything?

  • Do you experience MORE expectation or appreciation?

    If you’re not sure, are you more often angry or frustrated than happy?

  • I’ve carried so much grief and tension in my life – it’s time to just truly feel good. It’s time to help the world learn from this, so we can all just be happier and have more love in our hearts.

  • Where is the line?

    We each are responsible for our own feelings, however we also influence and are in some way responsible for how we help others to feel

    So - where is the line - ?

    The answer - we are all primarily responsible for finding ways to truly feel great for ourselves, that also help others around us.

    1. When we live with a truly great feeling, we help to float all boats
  • It is our responsibility to learn how to truly feel great

  • We’re all just trying to feel good. Everything we do is in the attempt to satiate our desire to feel good

  • All we have is how we feel NOW, and how we can help others to feel

    Our life’s mission is to learn how to truly feel great IN THIS MOMENT - for ourselves and others (those we care about and more)

  • They haven’t given themselves permission to feel good

    They don’t think they deserve to feel good

  • Improve your expectations - BEST way is turning them into appreciations

  • Being good at something
    Understanding and being understood

  • Not disappointing others
    Not failing (bad though)

  • Improve our ability to feel and share appreciation - GET BACK TO APPRECIATION

    Everything is for feeling good.

    We appreciate what we feel good about. It can be tricky to just ‘feel good’, as there are many factors that make up feeling good. However, we can improve our ability to feel appreciation whenever we want to.

  • Be around people with similar feel good interests and actions, ASSUMING you know how to feel good, and are around the right people

  • We ALL go through tough times. This conflict in our past or present, if we so choose to learn from, can teach us how to truly feel great now and in the future.

  • The GREATEST way to feel good is through appreciation.
    When we truly feel appreciation, we let go of what should have been, and accept and appreciate what is and will be

  • If you expect a lot, or greatly different to what actually happened or is happening, you’ll likely NOT feel good.

    IF you want something MASSIVE to happen to feel good, you’ve forfeit feeling good, and you likely prevent others from feeling good.

    (Trump<)

  • Introduce feeling good as the true universal want

    Help people realise that we do everything for feeling - GO SLOW AND STEADY HERE

  • What do you want?

    This is perhaps the most important question we can ask ourselves throughout our lives.

  • Everything we do, we do to feel good. It’s what we all want.

    So, everything that you do, is to help others feel good. So you simply need to find the thing that you do that feels good for you AND for others - SIMPLE.

    It will change over time, as it should. Life context changes, our wants and interests change. But the principle stays the same:

    Find what feels great - for you and for others

  • We’re here to feel
    We’re here to learn how to truly feel great, for ourselves and those we care about

    Some don’t know this universal truth

    Some for whatever reason have not given themselves permission to feel great -

    SECTION ON THIS


    Some simply don’t know how to feel great

    Our universal life mission is simple - learn how to truly feel great

  • To add later - ?

    I invite you to take a moment - as much time as you’d like to try and answer this question. Your answer might be a long list, it might be one sentence.
    Whatever it is, it isn;’t wrong. It’s what you want right now.

  • Balance need for necessary self awareness

  • CHAPTER 0

    What happens when you don’t know what you want?

    What happens when you don’t know how to feel great?

  • CHAPTER 1

    Brief intro into the universal models for feeling great

  • CHAPTER 2

    The best way to feel great

  • CHAPTER 3

    Being good at something(s)

  • Getting back to feeling

    NOT just thinking

  • How do you spend most of your time?

    There are insights to be learned from this

  • INTRO

  • The answer is to not punish, but to rise the tide to float ALL boats

  • CHAPTER 1

    Who do you care about?

  • CHAPTER 2

    How good are you at helping others to feel good?

    THAT’S WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT

  • Figuring out what you want largely comes down to realising what actions and outcomes feel the greatest, while being good for us and those meaningful to us. If it were that simple to communicate this message, this book would end here. However, there are many reasons why we may find it difficult to understand and connect to what we want to do and have - understanding our interest and skills, our world and life perspective, honouring what we care about, surviving and growing through whatever challenging moments life brings, feeling numb and disconnected due to prolonged and sustained action that isn’t inline with truly feeling great, to name just a few.

  • Finding the right answers means asking the right questions. If you are asking yourself - ‘what do I want?’, possibly for the first time in a very long time, or ever - you’re finally focusing on the right question.

  • However, there are many reasons why we may find it difficult to understand and connect to what we want to do and have - understanding our interest and skills, our world and life perspective, honouring what we care about, surviving and growing through whatever challenging moments life brings, feeling numb and disconnected due to prolonged and sustained action that isn’t inline with truly feeling great, to name just a few.

    Our perspective (our view of the world and ourselves in it) can vary depending on the context and how we feel in each moment. Throughout this book, you’ll find perspective examples that might challenge how you view things.

    Perspective example 1.
    Life, like a beautiful piece of music, unfolds in a way in which the performer and audience have an experience of feeling. The goal is the same - it isn’t to reach the last note (or final days of life), otherwise all songs would be extremely short and climactic! The goal is to feel each moment, for all that moment brings. Each moment, each note or lyrical phrase tells a part of a story, and the story makes more sense when you pay more attention to all the parts. If you are playing life to get to an end result at the expense of feeling each moment - whatever you are doing will almost certainly not be enough. {If it isn’t enough to help you feel good now, while you are in the process of taking action, then there’s little hope it’s good enough to help you reach what you think you want.}

  • Learning how to feel good is EVERYTHING
    How to learn how to feel good:

    • Awareness of your impact on others | where that ends and where others feelings are their own
  • Turning expectation into appreciation is the universal essential skill

  • Everything we do, we do to feel good, or to learn how to feel good. When we stop learning how to feel good, we start doing things for the wrong reasons, and this creates so much conflict, inside us, and the world around us.

    Feeling is literally and figuratively the meaning of our lives. We are here to learn hot to truly feel great, for ourselves and those we care about.

    We live in a feelings world. Our existence is feeling. Feeling is the meaning of our lives.

    Why else do we do anything?

  • EVERYTHING is for the function of FEELING. Feeling is at the heart of everything - the ultimate and universal WHY.

    Life is the opportunity to feel. We have our whole lives to feel and to help others feel, in the face and or wake of the context of our lives.

    We choose how we feel by the frame we put around the experience.

  • Learning how to truly feel good, for ourselves and those we care about is why we are here.

    Turning expectation into appreciation

    (Ever expanding circle of caring)

  • How to feel good

  • What does TRULY feeling great entail - ?

  • We’ve got to find true appreciation – more than just living for this moment, doing so while also achieving something great that you are here for.

  • We all want the same things - to feel good. We must realise that we are all similar in that we are all trying to find the best ways to truly feel great. The caveat here is that some of us are at different ends of the spectrum than others. THIS CAN BE FRUSTRATING - and can lead to the C’s will always be C’s prinicple

  • How to know when you’re not feeling good?

    • You don’t feel good
    • You’re not experiencing the success you want
    • Those around you aren’t happy
  • How do we feel?

  • What do we want to feel

  • The longest journey we will ever take is from our brain to our heart

  • Assess current models for feeling good

  • Decide on next action:

    Perspective shift - understanding the intentions of others
    Turning expectations into appreciation
    Finding purpose
    Helping others - to feel good
    Helping yourself - to feel good

  • Gumtree
    Website
    Facebook

  • Coaching - over the phone

  • You pay what it is worth to you, when it is worth something
    First 10 minute session is free
    I’m working towards not being needed (best case scenario - I teach you how to teach yourself)

  • How to make a great deal of money WHILE helping a great deal of people

  • Ways to feel good:

    Perspective

  • Appreciation (perspective and senses)
    Vent
    Senses

  • What we all want is to feel good. Some actions feel better than others. Some actions are more in line with what we care about, as well as our natural and learned skills.

    The other important aspect of doing what feels good is how it helps others your are about to feel.

  • We like what we like. We care what we care about. If we set a goal, we assign the ideal that we will feel great WHEN WE REACH that goal.

    The difference in living a life that feels great, is that you do what truly feels great now. Because it truly feels great now, it will continue to feel great in the future.

    Too many of us are chasing a feel great moment that might not exist. It’s so easy to work towards accomplishing something while forsaking this moment entirely.

    Answer this question - WHY is accomplishing that goal so important?

    Ask yourself why again, and continue to, until you reach the universal WHY - because it (will) feel good.

    Balancing feeling good now, and feeling good later is important. Some goals and missions are so massive and important, that the tension and release ratio is skewed more so on tension for a longer period, with a quicker but potent release moment.

    Unless you’re trying to get humanity to Mars, speed up the advent to sustainable energy, or the many other missions out there… What you are doing is not worth sacrificing feeling great now.

  • All we have is how we feel, and how we help others we care about to feel

    Everything we do, everything we experience, consume and create - we do for the FEELING (collective and individual)

  • Allowing yourself to feel again can be tricky. We all have or will go through difficult and challenging times. Losing a loved one, and experiencing the grief that follows can be more than enough to make anyone want to not feel ever again.

    Working through the disconnection, breaking through feeling numb, moving towards feeling good, feeling anything again can be the bravest thing we will ever do.

    It can feel much easier to move through life without a connection to anything. Many attempt to cope with the emptiness and loneliness with consumption of the wrong things in the wrong amounts.

    Think about someone you care about. It could be a family member, friend, or anyone in the world that has made a great and lasting impact on you. End result that we want for anyone we love - a life that feels great.
    WHAT ABOUT OURSELVES?

  • EXPECATATION

  • APPRECIATION

  • We all have responsibilities. These are likely in the form of a job or employment - fulfilling the need of earning money to provide for yourself and loved ones.

    Realising that it’s time for a change can be an empowering but tricky time for some. If you don’t feel great doing what you do, you’ll start to look for others ways to feel great, AND to help others feel great.

    First and foremost - the need to survive must be preserved. You can’t feel your greatest if you are homeless and destitute. It’s not wise to reactively quit your work, especially if you don’t have a good idea of what to do next.

    The best course of action is to improve your awareness and perspective of what you do now. There are aspects of almost any job that we can each take pride in. Without judgement, say you clean toilets for a living. While it might be a ‘crappy’ job at times, imagine these two scenarios:

    Not clean
    Clean

  • Who do you care about?

  • How do THEY like to feel good?

    The distinction between how you like to feel good and how someone else likes to feel good is a common stumbling block - many mistakenly take action that they themselves like, without realising that we each have similar AND DIFFERENT needs and wants
    Taking the right action for the right reasons shows that you understand the person you care for - and at the end of the day - don’t we all just want to feel understood and cared for?

  • SHARING (SHOWING) APPRECIATION

    Appreciation felt with the help of others, that is not shared is not shared with them and others you come into contact with is appreciation wasted.

  • We are here to learn how to truly feel good. Every moment of feeling is a moment we can learn from. When you don’t learn from your feelings, you are designated to repeat similar situations and outcomes until you do.

  • We do everything to feel great. For love. And more.

  • Improve your feedback loop - SENSES (awareness through to feelings awareness)

    Living through your senses

  • Improve your expectations - BEST way is turning them into appreciations

  • Venting in the moment can feel good after, but cause more conflict to resolve.

  • Whatever you do, do it with feeling. That’s the meaning.

  • All that matters is feeling. Everything else is an extension of how we feel.
    What is the compelling and final outcome of anything we do? Yes, there is a function performance and achieved through the things we do, eg. eating food for nutrition and sustenance, working to pay the bills, etc. However, there is one main function above all else - how we feel.
    When we don’t realise that feeling is the main function to achieve, when we don’t live for the best of that, what results is confusion and conflict - much of how we are living in now.
    we don’t do those things for just that reason. Often, we don’t do those things because of that reason. We do them for the FEELING that comes from those things. The feeling in the anticipation, in the process, and afterwards.

  • The rollercoaster of feelings - its what we are here for. To feel through the bad, and to feel the great.

  • Learning how to truly feel great, for ourselves and those we care about is our life’s mission.
    This doesn’t mean we always should or have to feel good. We’re here to learn how to feel, and we all have and will have difficult and challenging experiences. Some, so painful that they can cause us to shy away from feelings, to become numb and disconnected.
    Whatever you feel, is true for you. The end goal for everything, even difficult times is to feel good again.
    Some experiences may lead us towards more shallow feel good actions.

  • Move forward with appreciation. Live in appreciation.
    It’s ok to want and expect better, but don’t let your expectations block you from feeling as great as possible now - as that is all we have. We can only make the best out of this NOW, and move towards better and future moments that feel great - BECAUSE OF WHAT WE HAVE LEARNED FROM HOW WE FELT THROUGH EXPECTATION TO APPRECIATION

  • THE DIFFERENCE IS FEELING AND SHARING APPRECIATION

    That’s what I do - I interact with people with appreciation, not expectation. I share the appreciation that I feel, showing understanding a gratitude for who the other person is, on their level and mine.
    When I’m off my game, it is because I feel more expectation than appreciation

    SIMPLE

    TEACH APPRECIATION

  • I feel great WHEN X - ?
    I WILL feel great WHEN X - ?
    We do it all to feel great. What if feeling great is the first step - ?

  • We can feel hurt when our expectations aren’t met, especially by those we care about.
    Appreciating their position, what lead to their behaviour is one of the best ways to heal and move forward with appreciation on your heart.
    When you respond with expectations, two similar forces collide, often preventing any from hearing and understanding the true message.
    Keeping calm, and moving towards feeling good, turning your expectation into appreciation can help the conflict resolve more effectively - helping you to feel good throughout more of the time, and actually heal the problem rather than covering it up with time and ignorance.

  • When you feel hurt, you want the other person / party to know, so that they can understand and care, so you can feel better and so the problem hopefully doesn’t happen again.
    Communicating your pain doesn’t always work. Feelings can be hard to verbalise and communicate effectively, especially in the heat of a conflict filled moment.
    Realising, first and foremost that the primary desire is to feel good again, some of the best ways:
    Learn how to truly feel good WITHOUT any intervention or action from the other person. This doesn’t mean consuming something else in great quantities that you drown out the bad feelings. It may mean connecting with something else in your life that feels good, that you love doing, that helps others also feel good. The idea is to not just be full of hurt feelings, but to balance them out with good feelings (NOT QUITE ACCURATE WITH NW RECENT CAROL CHAT RESOLUTION)
    The true solution is to find a way to turn your expectation into appreciation. Get better at working out if you what you expect is actually fair, for you and for others. Improve on your ability to understand the situation better, from all sides. Improve on your ability to feel appreciation for things, more so than expectations, WHILE also working towards achieving the things you want. We each first and foremost want to feel good. Find a way to feel good WHILE you improve upon and accomplish your expectations.

  • This may sound a bit strange. We consume food and drink, for the primary function of feeling. While I consume things (do things), my awareness of the feelings I consume and share is ever growing.
    When I didn’t have the awareness, when I was numb or disconnected, I did things without connecting and it lead nowhere.

  • If can be tricky to balance wanting to help ourselves feel good and wanting to help others we cafe about feel good
    Eg. People working at a job they don’t like, just to pay the bills for their family
    People doing what feels good more so for them, forsaking their loved one’s feelings

  • HAVING AND SHOWING MORE APPRECIATION - FOR EACH OTHER (cop, jay walking)

  • It can be very difficult to build from a place of expectations. The deficit or disappointment felt can negatively cloud things.

    The best place to build from is appreciation.

  • We live to feel good and help others feel good, but we must honour how we feel and improve on it AND because of it

  • Awareness #skill

  • Sharing - showing appreciation felt, and reciprocating

  • All we have is THIS moment to feel good in and from - don’t wait for some maybe future moment
    HOWEVER - move towards what feels good, improve what you do

  • All businesses and products are for FEELING

    This is the major aspect businesses don’t focus on - HOW DO YOU MAKE THE CLIENT FEEL GOOD?

  • LIFE is for feeling good

    Getting out of things that don’t feel good
    Doing more of what feels good
    Getting used to feeling again

    Thinking is for FEELING

  • All businesses and products are for FEELING

    This is the major aspect businesses don’t focus on - HOW DO YOU MAKE THE CLIENT FEEL GOOD?

  • LIFE is for feeling good

    Getting out of things that don’t feel good
    Doing more of what feels good
    Getting used to feeling again

  • THE MEANING OF OUR LIVES

  • THE PURPOSE OF OUR LIVES

  • Do you feel having power? Feeling arrogance and control?

  • What do we all want to feel?

  • What do you want to feel?

    We each have to decide - do we want to feel, and what do we want to feel

  • APPRECIATION

  • Appreciation VS Expectation

    The best way to both feel great yourself, and to help others feel great is through appreciation

    Appreciation comes in 3 parts:

    1. Feeling it
    2. Showing appreciation (communication)
    3. Receiving appreciation (communication)
  • Do what TRULY feels great NOW (for you AND for those you care about) - it’s the only reason to do anything

  • Moving in the right direction

  • Consumption

  • 1 Appreciation over expectation

  • 2 Helping those you care about feel great (while helping yourself feel great)

  • 3 Sensing this moment

  • Be the change you want to see in the world

    All that matters is feeling

    We’re all here to feel great and to help those we care about feel great (ever increasing the circle of whim we care about)

    We all need to figure out how to truly feel great, ourselves, so we can help others truly feel great

  • You’re not wrong in FEELING - you’re only wrong if you aren’t trying to TRULY feel great, for you and for others

  • Showing and sharing in appreciation

    Feeling appreciation

  • Pivot and learn - is what you have tried / doing helping you and others to truly feel great?

    Learning is the POINT - FEEL GREAT

  • The day you are born, and the day you find out why

  • Pairing - how well you know yourself

    We pair with people - best if we feel good in the same ways

    OR WANT TO feel good in the same ways

    WORST if we pretend or com from thought

  • Living from disconnection, expectation or appreciation

    That’s our choice

    Consumption to feel something is the first step - consuming the right THINGS is necessary

  • We can’t help who we fall in love with

    Love is appreciation at it’s greatest

    Love is a feeling, that can be attributed rightly and wrongly to people who may or may not fit

  • More thoguhts

  • Understand and appreciate the function

  • Chickens, cows, fish - all are consumed en mass.

    All for a more simple, yet actually difficult, and cruel method to consume nutrients

  • Where is the line drawn? Insects? Or simply wherever our line of sight ends? But that IS the issue…

  • Help you figure it out

    Simply put - we all want to feel good

    We (hopefully) learn better and better ways to feel good over time, leading to a great learned model for truly feeling good

    Help you:
    Realise if and what feels good - for you and those you care about
    Also based on your conditioning

  • INFOGRAPHIC like media - deeper understanding in the function AND contrast of things we take for granted.

    Basically - a visual representation of what I help say in person.

    ISSUE

    How do we represent EVERYONE - the situations we use as an example of contrast
    ANSWER - deeper layers of function and contrast - TO THE BASE LAYER

  • How we feel is the most important thing in our lives - literally the meaning of our lives.

    While sharing things in common is a strong factor, how others help you to feel is a major factor in whom you choose to spend your time with.
    Conversely, how you help others around you to feel, especially those whom you care for is a huge part of your life. It’s no one else’s responsibility to feel good, but for themselves. However, part of what helps us to feel good, is discovering how we enjoy to take action, that also helps others to feel good. TOO MANY WORDS...

    Every want we have, and action we take has some sort of an effect on other people.

    Every job, product or service does one ultimate thing - it helps someone to feel good, in some way, shape or form. How effective it is largely determines it’s success. The same goes for us - how effective we are at helping others to truly feel good ...

  • Being good at something can feel amazing.

    Issues:

    If you base it on meeting exact expectations
    If you compare yourself to others, and need others to lose
    If you are good at something that doesn’t serve you AND others

    Great:
    If you are good at something that is good

    Being good at something requires one to:

    Understand the function and WHY of what you are doing - ULTIMATELY, understanding how it helps others to feel good

    When we realise this, focus on and align with it - we can become masters of anything we choose to do.

    Understanding how others feel good is crucial

    LINKS TO HELPING OTHERS FEEL GOOD

  • WHAT is it that you do?
    THEN - what do you need to be good at within it? Who and how do you help - ?

  • HOW can you teach awareness to someone who does not see it yet?

    It’s possible and easier once you learn some of the things I have to share+

  • Every job, everything we do is an undertaking of feeling. When we work with this in mind - we all win.

    HOWEVER - do not live to just make others feel good. Doing things for the wrong reasons results in the wrong expectations being felt and set.

    Sharing good feelings, sharing in appreciation is the best way.

    DO THINGS BECAUSE YOU FEEL GOOD - however, only if you feel good in the right ways.

  • Get clear early on:

    Who and what do you care about?
    How do you care about them?
    How do you HELP THEM (INCLUDING YOU) to truly feel great - ?

  • Can be tricky when we are going through great challenge and conflict

  • Don’t just think it - FEEL IT

  • Contrast

  • It should be in the pursuit to feel appreciation, or because you feel appreciation already.

    HOWEVER - we can easily take things for granted… When working, focus on feeling appreciation for whatever you do

  • They don’t know how to truly feel good

    They don’t know that LEARNING how to truly feel good in THIS moment is the one skill we all must continue to improve upon, for the rest of our lives

  • They don’t know that feeling great is the mission of our lives, connected to the meaning of our lives - FEELING

    ALL WE HAVE IS FEELING

  • Everything we do or can do is simply to help others feel something - usually to feel good. HOW we do this depends on on skills and interests. When we help others feel good in the ways that matter to us, that also help us feel great - we all win. When we don’t, life can seem pointless and unforgiving (until we learn and pivot).

  • Feeling good is so obvious and simple. It’s what we’re here to do. But when you’re not feeling good, it can seem bizarre or impossible to get to a place where you can feel good again.

  • When you don’t know how to feel great, the most common thing is to do something GREATLY FEEL. This is often done through either the overconsumption of the wrong things, and / or doing something to

  • Until we know what we want, we DON’T know.

    I know, you’re probably thinking - “thanks captain obvious…” - however, this truth his hidden so well in plain sight, that’s it seems almost completely overlooked by the majority of our species.

    So until you figure out what you want, you’re trying to figure out what you want.
    Unfortunately, part of that is trial and error. And for some, the trial part can continue long after the error first begin.
    It’s easy to romanticise something, to the point where we become numb or blissfully ignorant to the error in our actions or intentions.

  • TO DO

    Group these into applicable groupings
    Assign a ranking order, like a ladder - HOWEVER you don’t need to go through all of these to reach level 10

  • Being good at something

  • Not being in trouble

  • Being understood

  • Being cared for and caring for something

  • Being part of something

  • Hope

  • Faith

  • Love

  • Being healthy

  • Exercise

  • Learning

  • Rising to the challenge

  • Expressing yourself

  • Venting

  • Tension and release

  • Contrast

  • Consumption

  • Senses

  • Connection
    Including love, but not exclusive

  • Improving things - being part of a better change

  • Solving problems

  • Helping others to feel great

  • Respect

  • Admiration / APPRECIATION

  • Turning expectation into appreciation

  • Not great:

    Control

    Have power over others

  • What DOESN’T feel good

  • Turning expectation into appreciation

    This is the greatest skill we can and must each learn. Without this skill, we’re destined to feel frustrated, angry and conflicted, simply because people, situations and anything else aren’t behaving as we expect.

  • Being good at the right things

  • When are ‘expectations’ are good for you?

  • WALK IT

  • One of the most common reasons people struggle is because they don’t yet know what they need to be good at.

    While there are many ways to learn how to do something, the most important aspect of anything is the WHY.

    When you understand the why, the path forward becomes much clearer. When you work towards the why, you do what is necessary. You have a better chance at making the right decision in the heat of the moment, because you have the right destination in mind.

  • Through senses

  • Coming back from doing something bad

  • What stops us from feeling?

    Being hurt - loss, failure+
    Getting it WRONG

  • Besides truly feeling great for ourselves, the only other thing we can do, and care to do is help those we care about to feel great.

    If you are a parent, guardian, or in charge of anyone else’s wellbeing – your primary task is to help those under your charge feel great – to truly feel great.

  • Responsibility of feelings - where does it being and end for each other?

  • Every action creates a feeling.

  • TRUMP EXAMPLE

    Everything we do, we do to feel good, or to learn how to feel good. When we stop learning how to feel good, we start doing things for the wrong reasons, and this creates so much conflict, inside us, and the world around us.

  • TV shows and movie - they are all stories about how the characters FEEL, taking the viewers on a journey of feelings.

  • We are all going through our own journey. The destination is not a place. It is both truly feeling great, born from the learning of how to feel great. When we each learn how to feel great, we can apply what we have learned to the many different life experiences we have and will each face, meaning we can truly feel great more often.

  • Being good at something
    Helping others to feel good

  • Improve our ability to feel and share appreciation - GET BACK TO APPRECIATION

  • Senses

    Perspective - analogous

  • Understand

    Part of something greater

    Care for / loved

    Connected

    In control

  • In the last few days - what happened that helped you feel good - ?

    “ “… feel bad - ?

  • Do you know how you like to help others feel good?
    Are you present, in the moments that matter to even NOTICE or SEE your positive effect on others?

  • Don’t rely on others to hoelp you feel good

  • What do you feel appreciation for?

    Do you feel appreciation, or just THINK it?

  • First - it begins by knowing WHAT YOU WANT

    Expectations are wants. Do you actually know what you want? Rather than reactively feel something, and respond based on that expectation met / unmet feelings place - ?

  • Expectations are wants and desires accompanied with absolution. “Things must happen as I expect, otherwise I won’t be happy”.

    That sentence may sound funny, but it’s the subtext many, if not all of us live by.

  • `Feeling appreciation IS THE KEY

    Learning how to SHIFT your thinking to feel appreciation is CRUCIAL`

    When I feel crap about something, I just have to realise I feel crap about expecting something else, and then shift to what is great now - what I can feel through my senses

    Recent emails - was like, didn’t want to do it, then I realised, I just made $260. Worth way more time than I was putting in, appreciative of the win, and the opportunity

  • People don’t know how to / that they should share appreciation

    People don’t know how to live through appreciation

  • When are expectations ok?

    When dealing with a lack of understanding and care

  • The meaning of life is to FEEL and to live from and for that feeling

  • We do EVERYTHING for the FEELING

    Feeling great is not the absence of feeling bad - it is the moment when you go from feeling the challenge and conflict to feeling the appreciation and peace

  • The purpose of our lives is to learn how to truly feel great, for ourselves and for those we care about - IN THIS MOMENT and so that FUTURE moments feel great

  • We are forever learning how to truly feel great - throughout the many phases and stages of our lives

  • Understood
    Cared for
    Part of something
    Having purpose, and accomplishing that purpose

  • What feelings motivate you?

    Some are compiled by preventing disappointment

    Some by wanting positive outcomes

    PURPOSE - Some by accomplishing a milestone which they have assigned great value to

    Making things better

  • We all want to feel great. When we don't know how to truly feel great, we create conflict around us

    This is especially true for people with either / both low awareness and poor ability to help others feel good

  • Appreciation is the highest feeling we can experience

  • Sharing the feeling of appreciation with others completes the circle

  • 1. Feeling appreciation

    Much of our ability to feel great is through our relationship with appreciation and expectation.

  • Doing what feels great now is the only reason to do anything

    HOWEVER - we MUST learn from the outcomes of what we do, so we may pivot based on the only reason why we do anything - HOW WE FEEL AND HOW WE HELP OTHERS TO FEEL

  • Too many unfortunately do things for the wrong reasons - because they THINK it will lead to what they want

  • It’s all about the FEELING

    Feel it - don’t think it

  • We all need a compelling reason to do something? A book report in high school, a health problem to change your habits - a catalytic moment that gives us a compelling FEELING is the reason we do ALL

  • How do we BEST HELP the world to feel more appreciation?

  • Come from appreciation, even when criticising

    TRUE APPRECIATION - of what is real and felt - don’t force it, but get there in your own time before criticising

  • Do you feel good about yourself? Thats is SO important

  • I help people feel appreciation for the right things - TRULY.

    I help people let go of expectations they hold onto / live life through

  • Being good at something is great. It gives us the validation we need, while also giving as an outlet to express ourselves - our interests, skills and abilities, while also ultimately helping someone else to feel great.

  • Be good at something useful

    That doesn’t just mean a trade. It means something that helps others as well as you to feel good.

  • A great way to think and feel about life and money:

    There is so much money out there. The challenge isn’t to make lots of money. The worthy challenge is to find what you’re here to do, what fills you and those you care about with great feelings AND make money.

    This who work really hard and put everything else on hold to make money find a bittersweet taste in their mouths. When they realise that what they worked so hard for might not have been worth it.

    When you live your life, looking for the things that give you and others great feelings, AND the money and abundance you want - then EVERYONE WINS.

    EXPAND ON THIS

  • Loss

    Unmet expectations

  • When the expectations are fair and just - when they lead to great and necessary growth.

    HOWEVER - living in and from the expectations is not enough. If all you have in you, and all you take action from is your expectations, then everything you do will be ruined.

    Take Martin Luther King. His expectations (Dream) were damn right. However, he didn’t allow the hate or feelings of hurt to be the message. He channeled his expectations into a way that would ultimately reach those who needed to hear it the most.

  • The ultimate WHY is feeling great. It’s really that simple.

    Whatever you are doing, there is always someone else involved. Be it a customer or staff member - all parts of the process must feel good, especially the thing that you do.

    To identify the WHY of what you are doing, you need to figure out what makes it important to you, and to others.

  • If you’ve hurt someone else, it will be somewhat unfair for you to feel good without making reparations.

  • They likely either don’t themselves realise that feeling good is the purpose of our lives, nor how to help you feel good

  • It’s very common for people to live from thought, rather than from feeling.

    This is a somewhat decisive topic - as to live for pleasure alone can lead to shallow and poor choices. However, feeling is the only reason why we are alive. The meaning of our lives is feeling. How we feel is how we experience life.

    What we feel greatest for is often what we care for the most.

  • It’s also very common for people to shut off their feelings - to become numb and disconnected, often because of challenging moments of conflict.

  • Michael Scott

  • We help people feel great and greatly, that THEY share the content

  • We should all be with someone who helps us to feel great. Whom we feel great being with.

    Along the way, relationships change - the eb and flow of our own journey to feel great can mean that we don’t always accomplish helping our partner feel great.

    The solution is not to just break up with someone (unless that is absolutely how you feel). It’s time for the other partner to learn that feeling is everything+

  • We need to think, to frame how we feel, however the point of life is not thought. It is the balance of feeling and thought - TRUE CONSCIOUSNESS

  • How you react to someone NOT meeting your expectations will almost always result in UNMET expectations, and both parties not feeling great

    Besides effective communication about how you feel and how to do better, one of the best ways to move forward is to feel appreciation for what is already there for you. Changing your awareness - “it’s not what you are looking at, it’s what you see”.

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So you build a model for truly feeling good"},{"_id":"695d665669187ae62d00024a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503717,"position":1,"parentId":"695d694969187ae62d000249","content":"Every action we take needs to truly feel good, for ourselves and all those we care for and are involved.\n\nAction devoid of this, that does not honour this universal WHY, must eventually lead to conflict in some manner, often preventable and unnecessary.\n\n\n\nTo begin with, we need to get back to feeling. Feeling is the WHY of life, the meaning of life in it's most literal regard."},{"_id":"695d5d5c69187ae62d00024b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503731,"position":2,"parentId":"695d694969187ae62d000249","content":"Line of sight\nWether we have a reduced line of sight, or we ignore what we see, and the outcome is taking action that does not lift all boats - \n\n\nTHE AWARENESS OF LINE OF SIGHT - to profit, many become ignorant to the flow on outcomes, justifying the exploitation / poor model for truly feeling good"},{"_id":"695d54fe69187ae62d00024c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503728,"position":3,"parentId":"695d694969187ae62d000249","content":"How to lift all boats when hurt...?"},{"_id":"695d246b69187ae62d00024f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503778,"position":2,"parentId":"695d698d69187ae62d000248","content":"THE MAJORS"},{"_id":"695d244b69187ae62d000250","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503779,"position":1,"parentId":"695d246b69187ae62d00024f","content":"# INTENTION\nKnowing what you want"},{"_id":"695d23f269187ae62d000251","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503780,"position":2,"parentId":"695d246b69187ae62d00024f","content":"# APPRECIATION\nThe ultimate perspective"},{"_id":"695d236c69187ae62d000252","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503781,"position":3,"parentId":"695d246b69187ae62d00024f","content":"# EXPECTATION\nTurning expectation into appreciation+"},{"_id":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15443424,"position":2.2737367544323206e-13,"parentId":null,"content":"# What does it take to feel good\n\nMASTER"},{"_id":"69a0f470b7ab370014000237","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15443426,"position":1,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"Appreciation"},{"_id":"69a0f44db7ab370014000238","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15443434,"position":2,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"Consumption"},{"_id":"69a0f20cb7ab370014000239","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15443435,"position":3,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"Creation"},{"_id":"695e1b5669187ae62d00023a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503622,"position":4,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"INTENTION\nEXPECTATION\nAPPRECIATION"},{"_id":"695e059169187ae62d00023b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503623,"position":5,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"Death and explotation"},{"_id":"695e053b69187ae62d00023c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503625,"position":1,"parentId":"695e059169187ae62d00023b","content":"Animals dying, for human food consumption"},{"_id":"695dfe8a69187ae62d00023e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503632,"position":1,"parentId":"695e053b69187ae62d00023c","content":"Chickens, cows, fish - all are consumed en mass.\n\nAll for a more simple, yet actually difficult, and cruel method to consume nutrients"},{"_id":"695e048969187ae62d00023d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503629,"position":2,"parentId":"695e059169187ae62d00023b","content":"Sadly, capitalism often necessitates the exploration of many, for the profit of a few\n\nEg - technology, devices, money+"},{"_id":"695db78e69187ae62d00023f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503650,"position":6,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"Universal Solution / Path"},{"_id":"695db72f69187ae62d000240","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503652,"position":1,"parentId":"695db78e69187ae62d00023f","content":"How to help ALL truly feel good\n\nWhile it's each of our responsibility to truly feel good...\nIt's also our responsibility to help all others truly feel good"},{"_id":"695da88969187ae62d000241","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503660,"position":1,"parentId":"695db72f69187ae62d000240","content":"Where is the line drawn? Insects? Or simply wherever our line of sight ends? But that IS the issue..."},{"_id":"695da61f69187ae62d000242","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503675,"position":7,"parentId":"69a0f4e2b7ab370014000236","content":"# Services\n\nLife changing service, it is worth whatever it is worth to you\n\nValue BEFORE reward"},{"_id":"695da5fd69187ae62d000243","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503671,"position":1,"parentId":"695da61f69187ae62d000242","content":"Understanding and appreciating the function of things - ESPECIALLY all that you have been taking for granted\n\nFOR: people who don't know what they want, or who don't seem to be happy with enough"},{"_id":"695da10b69187ae62d000244","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503677,"position":2,"parentId":"695da61f69187ae62d000242","content":"Living / being fuelled by appreciation"},{"_id":"695d9eec69187ae62d000245","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503679,"position":3,"parentId":"695da61f69187ae62d000242","content":"Knowing what you want"},{"_id":"695d70ad69187ae62d000247","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503707,"position":1,"parentId":"695d9eec69187ae62d000245","content":"Help you figure it out\n\nSimply put - we all want to feel good\n\nWe (hopefully) learn better and better ways to feel good over time, leading to a great learned model for truly feeling good\n\nHelp you:\nRealise if and what feels good - for you and those you care about\nAlso based on your conditioning"},{"_id":"695d980c69187ae62d000246","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":15503682,"position":4,"parentId":"695da61f69187ae62d000242","content":"Finding the good in the day\n\nHOW can those who have lost much find the good?"},{"_id":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963678,"position":4.547473508864641e-13,"parentId":null,"content":"##What does it take to feel good? That’s the book – that’s the topic\n\nBreak it down to the most important, then break it down to their majors. Then help people combine"},{"_id":"6bc6acb6a2eba16180000230","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14929336,"position":0.03125,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"SIMPLE EFFECTIVE SOLUTIONS:\n\nAppreciation for ALL\n\nLearning what it takes to feel good"},{"_id":"6bc687f8a2eba16180000231","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14929394,"position":1,"parentId":"6bc6acb6a2eba16180000230","content":"Work to improve the expectations situations, WHILE feeling all the appreciation possible\n\nWhat am I sharing and selling?\nA way to think?\nA way to feel?\nWHAT IS IT - ?"},{"_id":"6bbd32862df7e1275c000233","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14942390,"position":2,"parentId":"6bc6acb6a2eba16180000230","content":"Appreciation for all you take for granted\n\nTurn exp into app\n\nHow to feel the way you want\n\n\nWhen is it right to have expectations, and what to do with them?"},{"_id":"6bd00e85a2eba1618000022d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14921924,"position":0.0625,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"# APPRECIATION"},{"_id":"6bd00e50a2eba1618000022e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14922020,"position":1,"parentId":"6bd00e85a2eba1618000022d","content":"## The future of the human civilisation depends on our ability to learn how to appreciate all that we take for granted, and our ability to turn expectation into appreciation, and to appreciate how others feel.\n\nThis is the way to help the world, but how can we entice people to care"},{"_id":"6bcff4b0a2eba1618000022f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14922095,"position":1,"parentId":"6bd00e50a2eba1618000022e","content":"INFOGRAPHIC like media - deeper understanding in the function AND contrast of things we take for granted.\n\nBasically - a visual representation of what I help say in person.\n\n\n## `ISSUE`\nHow do we represent EVERYONE - the situations we use as an example of contrast\nANSWER - deeper layers of function and contrast - TO THE BASE LAYER"},{"_id":"6bafcbe64ef326272c000235","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14948960,"position":2,"parentId":"6bd00e85a2eba1618000022d","content":"Sharing what you feel\nFeeling it, not just thinking it"},{"_id":"747caa1deecc1cf0a9000127","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14907138,"position":0.125,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"What does it take to feel good?\n\nWe are all trying to figure this out, throughout every moment of our lives.\n\nUntil we figure this out, we live our lives in the search to answer this question, whether we take notice or not. When we don't take notice, we create a lot of conflict until we take notice...\n\nNo one can tell you how to feel good. It's up to each and every one of us to figure out the answer. However, just like anything else we learn in life - study can help.\n\nTake better notice of what you care about, and what those you care about... care about..."},{"_id":"6beda5d72fb6a9bee7000226","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905366,"position":0.5,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"Add a disclaimer - if you haven't felt for a while, it might come flooding back. Or if you find it hard to feel - here is how to find help - you're not alone."},{"_id":"747caa16eecc1cf0a9000128","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963685,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"MAJORS\n\nIt's completely your own responsibility to feel good - don't give it to anyone else, they can only let you down because they are looking after themselves."},{"_id":"747caa5beecc1cf0a900011e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14902702,"position":2,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"UNIVERSAL FEELS THROUGH"},{"_id":"747caba0eecc1cf0a9000110","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963680,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa5beecc1cf0a900011e","content":"Expectations being met\nAppreciation\nLearning"},{"_id":"747caa31eecc1cf0a9000124","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963684,"position":2,"parentId":"747caa5beecc1cf0a900011e","content":""},{"_id":"747caa2aeecc1cf0a9000125","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14903042,"position":3,"parentId":"747caa5beecc1cf0a900011e","content":""},{"_id":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906466,"position":3,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"POSITVE MODELS"},{"_id":"747caa37eecc1cf0a9000123","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904218,"position":0.5,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Helping others to feel good\n"},{"_id":"6beac58f8e56c4a5b7000229","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906498,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa37eecc1cf0a9000123","content":"How we feel is the most important thing in our lives - literally the meaning of our lives.\n\nWhile sharing things in common is a strong factor, how others help you to feel is a major factor in whom you choose to spend your time with.\nConversely, how you help others around you to feel, especially those whom you care for is a huge part of your life. It's no one else's responsibility to feel good, but for themselves. However, part of what helps us to feel good, is discovering how we enjoy to take action, that also helps others to feel good. `TOO MANY WORDS...`\n\nEvery want we have, and action we take has some sort of an effect on other people.\n\nEvery job, product or service does one ultimate thing - it helps someone to feel good, in some way, shape or form. How effective it is largely determines it's success. The same goes for us - how effective we are at helping others to truly feel good `...`\n\n"},{"_id":"5b9b473083ecb20352dc6251","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904255,"position":0.75,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Purpose + Knowing what you want"},{"_id":"747cab20eecc1cf0a9000115","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904299,"position":0.875,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Consumption"},{"_id":"747caaf3eecc1cf0a9000118","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905675,"position":0.9375,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Action"},{"_id":"6bef39207d4a22317400022e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905679,"position":0.96875,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Connection - love, compassion, friendship"},{"_id":"747caa23eecc1cf0a9000126","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905687,"position":0.984375,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Being good at something"},{"_id":"6bed17cf2fb6a9bee7000228","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905769,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa23eecc1cf0a9000126","content":"Being good at something can feel amazing.\n\nIssues:\n\nIf you base it on meeting exact expectations\nIf you compare yourself to others, and need others to lose\nIf you are good at something that doesn't serve you AND others\n\nGreat:\nIf you are good at something that is good\n\n\nBeing good at something requires one to:\n\nUnderstand the function and WHY of what you are doing - ULTIMATELY, understanding how it helps others to feel good\n\nWhen we realise this, focus on and align with it - we can become masters of anything we choose to do.\n\nUnderstanding how others feel good is crucial\n# `LINKS TO HELPING OTHERS FEEL GOOD`"},{"_id":"6bdca196a2eba1618000022c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14916282,"position":2,"parentId":"747caa23eecc1cf0a9000126","content":"WHAT is it that you do?\nTHEN - what do you need to be good at within it? Who and how do you help - ?"},{"_id":"747caae9eecc1cf0a9000119","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906458,"position":0.9921875,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Having something\n"},{"_id":"747caaddeecc1cf0a900011a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906462,"position":0.99609375,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Helping to make something better"},{"_id":"747caa4ceecc1cf0a9000120","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963681,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa53eecc1cf0a900011f","content":"Helping others to feel good\nPurpose\nKnowing what you want\nConsumption\nAction\nConnection - love, compassion, friendship\nBeing good at something\nHaving something\nContrast\nHelping to make something better\nBeing understood\n\nVenting / expressing ourselves"},{"_id":"747cabb2eecc1cf0a900010f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904157,"position":4,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"Other topics to cover"},{"_id":"747cab0deecc1cf0a9000116","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905568,"position":7,"parentId":"747cabb2eecc1cf0a900010f","content":"Feeling apathetic - numb and disconnected"},{"_id":"747caaffeecc1cf0a9000117","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905641,"position":8,"parentId":"747cabb2eecc1cf0a900010f","content":"There is a reason WHY people suck...\nThey don't suck, however\n\nJanice - boss who's a bitch - there's a reason WHY - and that must be addressed+"},{"_id":"747cab2deecc1cf0a9000114","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906759,"position":11.5,"parentId":"747cabb2eecc1cf0a900010f","content":"It can be very difficult to help others feel good, if we ourselves do not feel good.\n## Much conflict occurs outside of us, when we feel conflict inside of us."},{"_id":"747caa99eecc1cf0a900011b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906788,"position":12,"parentId":"747cabb2eecc1cf0a900010f","content":"Life is feeling - doing things and being aware of things to feel good, along with doing things that have an effect on how others feel.\n# Life is helping ourselves and others to truly feel good.\n\n## If you are experiencing a lot of inner and outer conflict, you likely either don't know that life is how you feel and how you help others to feel, OR you don't yet know what it takes to feel good, for you and for those you care about."},{"_id":"6bea2f888e56c4a5b700022a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906840,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa99eecc1cf0a900011b","content":"## `HOW can you teach awareness to someone who does not see it yet?`\n\nIt's possible and easier once you learn some of the things I have to share+"},{"_id":"6be91d5e8e56c4a5b700022b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14907160,"position":13,"parentId":"747cabb2eecc1cf0a900010f","content":"Must show people what you care about - otherwise how can they ever truly know you, to also help you feel good - ?"},{"_id":"747caa44eecc1cf0a9000121","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14906464,"position":5,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"NEGATIVE MODELS"},{"_id":"747cab89eecc1cf0a9000111","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963682,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa44eecc1cf0a9000121","content":"Having control / power over others\n\nNeeding validation from others(same as others meeting your expectations)\n\nHurting others\n(Perhaps you don’t realise this is how you feel good - many who do this aren’t great at helping others, especially those they care about to feel good - OR they don’t notice...) SO they make others feel something GREATLY, that THEY can notice."},{"_id":"747caa3deecc1cf0a9000122","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14902827,"position":6,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"How to:"},{"_id":"747cab57eecc1cf0a9000112","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963683,"position":1,"parentId":"747caa3deecc1cf0a9000122","content":"Get the cacklers to want to learn"},{"_id":"6bf0967e75dcf1197500022b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904122,"position":14,"parentId":"747caa78eecc1cf0a900011c","content":"Other topics to cover"},{"_id":"747cab39eecc1cf0a9000113","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904123,"position":1,"parentId":"6bf0967e75dcf1197500022b","content":"Where do you suck at feeling good?\nBelieving the good feeling - understanding how you feel"},{"_id":"6bc6637da2eba16180000232","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14929368,"position":2,"parentId":"6bf0967e75dcf1197500022b","content":"We are living moments of feeling - a SPECTRUM OF FEELING\n\nWe share greater moments, such as sex"},{"_id":"6bef4fd559933c4d7f000222","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904969,"position":5.115907697472721e-13,"parentId":null,"content":"## How does this actually help ALL - ?\n\n`Am I trying to change the way people think to change the way they feel? Is that an issue - ?`"},{"_id":"6beeec4f2fb6a9bee7000225","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904988,"position":1,"parentId":"6bef4fd559933c4d7f000222","content":"Is there another way? Refocus people onto things they FEEL good about and work from there - ?\n\nWays we feel:\nTalking WITH people\nMusic\nVideo\nFood and drink\n\n# SO - beautiful movement that supports all the good in the world, so that great public world figures join in translating information to all those that may listen\n\n\nWhat about those who need the help most?\nThey likely are living in poor models for feeling good because of their nature and nurture+\n\nThey need reinforcement of the good they likely know and feel, and then redirection where best"},{"_id":"6bed85c32fb6a9bee7000227","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14905417,"position":2,"parentId":"6bef4fd559933c4d7f000222","content":"Who to help?\n\nAf warlord\n\n"},{"_id":"6bef9d3559933c4d7f000221","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14904017,"position":5.684341886080801e-13,"parentId":null,"content":"All trying to figure out how to feel good, but also what feelings mean\n\nLarge conflicts can create harmony - ?\n\n\n\n\nAbility to understand and SHARE\n\n\nBook unfolds in a way that entices you to keep reading more - ?\n\n"},{"_id":"747caa6deecc1cf0a900011d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14963679,"position":6.821210263296962e-13,"parentId":null,"content":"#-------"},{"_id":"6dbc627f31581740fa00021e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14543807,"position":9.094947017729282e-13,"parentId":null,"content":"Everyone does EVERYTHING for how it feels\n\nSO - we need to help people FEEL better, in every way possible"},{"_id":"6dbc4bdc31581740fa00021f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14543817,"position":1,"parentId":"6dbc627f31581740fa00021e","content":"We are all on a journey of feeling.\n\nParticular expression of music can help us feel, and to share in the feeling. We tend to like music that feels familiar - THAT HAS AN EFFECT THE FEELS FAMILIAR - pain or challenge, etc."},{"_id":"6dd626b49dd1de1cfc00021d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14528365,"position":1.8189894035458565e-12,"parentId":null,"content":"Is the nature of feeling ELUSIVE - ?\n\nDoes it need to be somewhat 'unknown', or 'often rediscovered' - ?"},{"_id":"6de337fe9dd1de1cfc000216","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518305,"position":3.637978807091713e-12,"parentId":null,"content":"FIRST PRINCIPLES"},{"_id":"6de303439dd1de1cfc00021c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518437,"position":0.5,"parentId":"6de337fe9dd1de1cfc000216","content":"We're all trying to figure out what feelings mean - what they are trying to tell us, what we should do because of those feelings, what to do to have more / different feelings...\n\n# IS THAT THE FOCUS - WHAT DOES THE FEELING MEAN - ?"},{"_id":"6de34e9d9dd1de1cfc000211","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518307,"position":1,"parentId":"6de337fe9dd1de1cfc000216","content":"We feel, based on the affect things have on our meaning, and how others respond to our actions."},{"_id":"6de34b779dd1de1cfc000212","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518309,"position":1,"parentId":"6de34e9d9dd1de1cfc000211","content":"Our expectations\nWhat we give meaning\nWhat / who we care about"},{"_id":"6de33a6f9dd1de1cfc000214","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518310,"position":2,"parentId":"6de337fe9dd1de1cfc000216","content":"When we feel good about the wrong things, we experience and create conflict, until we learn"},{"_id":"6de339c89dd1de1cfc000215","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518311,"position":3,"parentId":"6de337fe9dd1de1cfc000216","content":"Conflict and challenge come from wrong choices and actions, from ourselves and others, and as a necessary part of life (contrast and challenge)"},{"_id":"6de336939dd1de1cfc000217","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518314,"position":4,"parentId":"6de337fe9dd1de1cfc000216","content":"We're all doing the same thing, but at different points in the journey - LEARNING HOW TO TRULY FEEL GOOD"},{"_id":"6de346359dd1de1cfc000213","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518322,"position":7.275957614183426e-12,"parentId":null,"content":"THE MAJORS:\n\nLearning how to feel good\n\nThe universe gives meaning through finite time and contrast"},{"_id":"6de333c39dd1de1cfc000218","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518332,"position":1,"parentId":"6de346359dd1de1cfc000213","content":"Realising the truth - LEARNING HOW TO TRULY FEEL GOOD - IN THIS MOMENT, AND FOR FUTURE MOMENTS, FOR OURSELVES AND FOR OTHERS, FOR THE BEST LIFE POSSIBLE, THROUGHOUT ALL PHASES AND CONTEXTS"},{"_id":"6de32a0c9dd1de1cfc000219","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518333,"position":2,"parentId":"6de346359dd1de1cfc000213","content":"APPRECIATION\nPURPOSE"},{"_id":"6de3216a9dd1de1cfc00021a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518346,"position":1.8189894035458565e-11,"parentId":null,"content":"Just as there is the opportunity to do good, there is the balance"},{"_id":"6de31f839dd1de1cfc00021b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518361,"position":1,"parentId":"6de3216a9dd1de1cfc00021a","content":"Bottom line - helping people feel good about and for the right things helps the universe.\n\nWhat is right - ?\n\nWe can be conditioned to feel good, to feel alive about the wrong things.\nHow do incase our awareness for what is right - ?"},{"_id":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14511300,"position":2.9103830456733704e-11,"parentId":null,"content":"The Feels HQ"},{"_id":"6de59ffb9dd1de1cfc000209","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14517881,"position":0.25,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"FEEL GOOD COACH\nCollection of things\nYour ability to feel those things\nYour ability to do what feels good, while being brave to face the challenging\n\n`What is the best way to help people feel good?`\nHelping them learn how to do it for themselves\nHow do we do that though"},{"_id":"6de57bd79dd1de1cfc00020a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14517497,"position":1,"parentId":"6de59ffb9dd1de1cfc000209","content":"What do you NEED to do every day?"},{"_id":"6de57b9e9dd1de1cfc00020b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14517564,"position":2,"parentId":"6de59ffb9dd1de1cfc000209","content":"What feels good?\n\n(This is also a need, but a personal one)\n\nWhat do you do everyday that feels good? DO YOU DO ANYTHING?\n\n"},{"_id":"6de3a7039dd1de1cfc00020e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518117,"position":0.375,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"WHY"},{"_id":"6de3a6ed9dd1de1cfc00020f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518118,"position":1,"parentId":"6de3a7039dd1de1cfc00020e","content":"All we do is FEEL and do things that others FEEL"},{"_id":"6de3a5c59dd1de1cfc000210","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14518164,"position":1,"parentId":"6de3a6ed9dd1de1cfc00020f","content":"Every job, everything we do is an undertaking of feeling. When we work with this in mind - we all win.\n\nHOWEVER - do not live to just make others feel good. Doing things for the wrong reasons results in the wrong expectations being felt and set.\n\nSharing good feelings, sharing in appreciation is the best way.\n\n# DO THINGS BECAUSE YOU FEEL GOOD - however, only if you feel good in the right ways.\n\n"},{"_id":"6deda349f5fe44190c000205","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14511008,"position":0.5,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"2 MAJORS to truly feeling great\n\n1. Appreciation\n2. Know what you want"},{"_id":"6ded45a9f5fe44190c000206","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14511289,"position":1,"parentId":"6deda349f5fe44190c000205","content":"All well and good, but what about WHEN they know this - ?\n\nOr - how to know this - ?\n\nLearning from how you feel\nLearning how to have a great impact\nLearning how to achieve your purpose once discovered\n\n`Is the purpose the same - to help ourselves and others feel great in ways we care about - ?`"},{"_id":"6ded3480f5fe44190c000207","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14511298,"position":1,"parentId":"6ded45a9f5fe44190c000206","content":"Get clear early on:\n\nWho and what do you care about?\nHow do you care about them?\nHow do you HELP THEM (INCLUDING YOU) to truly feel great - ?"},{"_id":"6ded0db2f5fe44190c000208","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14511581,"position":2,"parentId":"6ded45a9f5fe44190c000206","content":"Can be tricky when we are going through great challenge and conflict"},{"_id":"6e04c08cf5fe44190c0001fb","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14487297,"position":1,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"Do things for the right feelings\n\nLearn to do things to help those you care about to FEEL GOOD"},{"_id":"6e04bfcef5fe44190c0001fc","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14487298,"position":1,"parentId":"6e04c08cf5fe44190c0001fb","content":"Mel and family - B"},{"_id":"6df3a059f5fe44190c0001fd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14499180,"position":2,"parentId":"6e04c08cf5fe44190c0001fb","content":"Tension and release IS the mechanism"},{"_id":"6deeaeb3f5fe44190c0001fe","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14510671,"position":2,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"Doing it to FEEL"},{"_id":"6deeae90f5fe44190c0001ff","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14510673,"position":1,"parentId":"6deeaeb3f5fe44190c0001fe","content":"It's not always possible to feel good, and it should NOT be. However, we can learn to feel better in the moments that are challenging.\n\nThe tough moments help us learn"},{"_id":"6de5541e9dd1de1cfc00020c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14517562,"position":3,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"PROS\n\nBeing conscious of what feels good is the best way to learn\nOtherwise, it's trial and error, perhaps most of the time - BLIND\n\nThe greatest truth we all need to know is that life is feeling = we do everything for feeling. True evolution comes from living FOR and WITH the BEST feelings"},{"_id":"6de553ee9dd1de1cfc00020d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14517559,"position":4,"parentId":"6e04c0c4f5fe44190c0001fa","content":"CONS\n\nPeople may not want to be too analytical... Nor should they be"},{"_id":"6dedafb4f5fe44190c000204","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14511000,"position":5.820766091346741e-11,"parentId":null,"content":"Either\n\nGrowth\n\nSign of you doing something not quite right\n\nSign of someone else trying to figure out how to feel good, and causing waves in the process"},{"_id":"6deea2cff5fe44190c000200","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14510680,"position":1.1641532182693481e-10,"parentId":null,"content":"What am I doing? What do I want?"},{"_id":"6deea253f5fe44190c000201","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14510681,"position":1,"parentId":"6deea2cff5fe44190c000200","content":"To help the universe\n\nWHILE helping myself"},{"_id":"6dede2e4f5fe44190c000202","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14510946,"position":3.4924596548080444e-10,"parentId":null,"content":"What is life?"},{"_id":"6dede2c9f5fe44190c000203","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14510948,"position":1,"parentId":"6dede2e4f5fe44190c000202","content":"Life is learning.\n\nLearning is understanding expectations.\n\nUndestanding and learning expectations involves conflict through to appreciation."},{"_id":"6e1ac8c1ee29625ab80001f5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14464891,"position":4.656612873077393e-10,"parentId":null,"content":"Our ability to truly feel good\n\nComes down to:"},{"_id":"6e1ac85bee29625ab80001f6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14464892,"position":1,"parentId":"6e1ac8c1ee29625ab80001f5","content":"Our ability to FEEL\n\nTo feel the moment, and to feel good about the moment, wether it be good or bad (learning from the bad)"},{"_id":"6e1ab73bee29625ab80001f7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14465052,"position":2,"parentId":"6e1ac8c1ee29625ab80001f5","content":"After you've done something BAD"},{"_id":"6e1ab170ee29625ab80001f9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14465569,"position":0.5,"parentId":"6e1ab73bee29625ab80001f7","content":"People do bad or wrong things because they do not know much better in the moment, at that time."},{"_id":"6e1ab701ee29625ab80001f8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14465051,"position":1,"parentId":"6e1ab73bee29625ab80001f7","content":"It can feel impossible to right the wrongs, EVEN IF"},{"_id":"6e3aeb333d3f60a6d10001d7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416040,"position":9.313225746154785e-10,"parentId":null,"content":"NEW"},{"_id":"6e3aeb0b3d3f60a6d10001d8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416047,"position":1,"parentId":"6e3aeb333d3f60a6d10001d7","content":"We're all on the same team, some of us are just earlier in the journey. Treat everyone, including ourselves with love, so we can all be better together."},{"_id":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416088,"position":1.3969838619232178e-9,"parentId":null,"content":"HOW TO TRULY FEEL GREAT"},{"_id":"6e3acffd3d3f60a6d10001da","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14459051,"position":0.03125,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"1."},{"_id":"6e248b1ba4efd917670001f0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14459065,"position":2.00002,"parentId":"6e3acffd3d3f60a6d10001da","content":"We're all just trying to figure out how to feel good. Conflict and contrast are necessary parts of life - they may actually be designed to help us feel true appreciation, to ascend.\n\nThere are many aspects to truly feeling great:\n\nLearning how to turn expectation into appreciation\n\nLearning\n\nBeing good at something\n\nKnowing what you want\n\nKnowing how to help those you care about to truly feel good\n\nOTHER MAJORS\n\nThe most important skill is turning expectation into appreciation. All conflict and contrast exists in a way to help us learn and feel appreciation for what we have. 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In the face or wake, and because of EVERYTHING that happens in our lives."},{"_id":"6e31e2741d1c5b52a00001e9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14422072,"position":0.25,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"What's the point?"},{"_id":"6e31e2301d1c5b52a00001ea","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14422110,"position":1,"parentId":"6e31e2741d1c5b52a00001e9","content":"To learn how to truly feel great, through many different ways, especially through appreciation.\n\nOnce you feel that appreciation, THEN SHARE IT - LET IT FUEL YOUR ACTIONS - this COMPLETES the circle, the circle of life :)"},{"_id":"6e31d2721d1c5b52a00001ec","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14422276,"position":1,"parentId":"6e31e2301d1c5b52a00001ea","content":"Don't just think it - FEEL IT"},{"_id":"6e31dd821d1c5b52a00001eb","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14422165,"position":2,"parentId":"6e31e2741d1c5b52a00001e9","content":"There are MANY reasons to do something, but the truest is because it TRULY FEELS GOOD"},{"_id":"6e348fa43d3f60a6d10001e5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14418796,"position":0.5,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"IN THIS MOMENT"},{"_id":"6e348f673d3f60a6d10001e6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14418797,"position":1,"parentId":"6e348fa43d3f60a6d10001e5","content":"How do you truly feel in this moment?\n\nNot what you reactively think in response to your expectations, but what do you choose to focus on? What do you FEEL, in your body, your breath, gravity+"},{"_id":"6e3422743d3f60a6d10001e7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14419031,"position":0.75,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"What does it take for YOU to feel good?"},{"_id":"6e3422223d3f60a6d10001e8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14419035,"position":0.875,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"What does it take for THOSE YOU CARE about to feel good?"},{"_id":"6e3ad0343d3f60a6d10001d9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416089,"position":1,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"Appreciation"},{"_id":"6e3abaef3d3f60a6d10001dc","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416211,"position":1,"parentId":"6e3ad0343d3f60a6d10001d9","content":"What does it take for you to FEEL\n\nFor you to feel appreciation?"},{"_id":"6e3a886c3d3f60a6d10001df","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416212,"position":1.5,"parentId":"6e3ad0343d3f60a6d10001d9","content":"TECHNIQUES"},{"_id":"6e3a88423d3f60a6d10001e0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416214,"position":1,"parentId":"6e3a886c3d3f60a6d10001df","content":"Contrast"},{"_id":"6e3a8a873d3f60a6d10001dd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416209,"position":2,"parentId":"6e3ad0343d3f60a6d10001d9","content":"Why do you do anything?"},{"_id":"6e3a8a593d3f60a6d10001de","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416210,"position":1,"parentId":"6e3a8a873d3f60a6d10001dd","content":"It should be in the pursuit to feel appreciation, or because you feel appreciation already.\n\nHOWEVER - we can easily take things for granted... When working, focus on feeling appreciation for whatever you do"},{"_id":"6e39a3353d3f60a6d10001e3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14459053,"position":3,"parentId":"6e3ad0343d3f60a6d10001d9","content":"Do you experience MORE expectation or appreciation?\n\nIf you're not sure, are you more often angry or frustrated than happy?"},{"_id":"6e2487d3a4efd917670001f3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14459045,"position":1.5,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"Expectations"},{"_id":"6e2487a5a4efd917670001f4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14459047,"position":1.75,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"Being good at something"},{"_id":"6e24871ea4efd917670001f5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14459050,"position":1.875,"parentId":"73a9b3483319f9244a00019b","content":"Self assessment"},{"_id":"6e42b0fdaabccc91500001dd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14408232,"position":1.862645149230957e-9,"parentId":null,"content":"Done"},{"_id":"6e3951433d3f60a6d10001e4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416631,"position":0.25,"parentId":"6e42b0fdaabccc91500001dd","content":"`I am no longer a fearful person - I do things to feel truly great - I do things for and fuelled by love and appreciation for all.`"},{"_id":"6e3a3a8b3d3f60a6d10001e1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14416271,"position":0.5,"parentId":"6e42b0fdaabccc91500001dd","content":"When did I feel most useful?\nWhen I was helping people.\n\nThe problem is - you need people to be in need of help...\nOn top of that, look at the complex dynamic of helping certain people, what that means for you..."},{"_id":"6e42b0c2aabccc91500001de","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14408233,"position":1,"parentId":"6e42b0fdaabccc91500001dd","content":"I’m sick and done with trying to hard – with unnecessary tension, and just a poor use of my life energy. I am me – my voice resonates at this level, my thoughts and feelings flow at this pace – I am me."},{"_id":"6e42ac2aaabccc91500001df","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14408234,"position":2,"parentId":"6e42b0fdaabccc91500001dd","content":" I’m done using my head more than my heart. I’m done living without love As my main driving force. I’m done with judgements and expectations – I’m here"},{"_id":"6e42a6f4aabccc91500001e0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14408236,"position":1,"parentId":"6e42ac2aaabccc91500001df","content":" I’ve carried so much grief and tension in my life – it’s time to just truly feel good. It’s time to help the world learn from this, so we can all just be happier and have more love in our hearts. 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Everything we do is in the attempt to satiate our desire to feel good"},{"_id":"72b7094106746d445d0001ce","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13341716,"position":1,"parentId":"72b7096806746d445d0001cd","content":"How we feel is what we get - we attract how we feel\n+ how others feel around us"},{"_id":"72b7025406746d445d0001d3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13341727,"position":2,"parentId":"72b7096806746d445d0001cd","content":"Change how you feel - it's the best way to get something different, that you want"},{"_id":"73976d9b3319f9244a0001c1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186164,"position":7.450580596923828e-9,"parentId":null,"content":"Guidelines"},{"_id":"73976d763319f9244a0001c2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186214,"position":1,"parentId":"73976d9b3319f9244a0001c1","content":"Write it like you're helping a friend - visualise and feel the conversation"},{"_id":"739ab54a3319f9244a0001bd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13182799,"position":1.4901161193847656e-8,"parentId":null,"content":"MAYBE"},{"_id":"739abf4e3319f9244a0001bc","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13182808,"position":0.5,"parentId":"739ab54a3319f9244a0001bd","content":"Learn how to fight kindly together - ? / RESOLVE - ?"},{"_id":"739ab5233319f9244a0001be","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13182802,"position":1,"parentId":"739ab54a3319f9244a0001bd","content":"Tempting fate VS As Is"},{"_id":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172094,"position":2.9802322387695312e-8,"parentId":null,"content":"WDYW"},{"_id":"73a54db73319f9244a0001a9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172251,"position":0.5,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"What do we want? To feel good"},{"_id":"73a51fd93319f9244a0001b7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172286,"position":1,"parentId":"73a54db73319f9244a0001a9","content":""},{"_id":"73a565ac3319f9244a0001a7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172691,"position":2,"parentId":"73a54db73319f9244a0001a9","content":"All we have is how we feel NOW, and how we can help others to feel\n\nOur life's mission is to learn how to truly feel great IN THIS MOMENT - for ourselves and others (those we care about and more)"},{"_id":"73a9ae703319f9244a00019f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172136,"position":1,"parentId":"73a565ac3319f9244a0001a7","content":"They don't know how to truly feel good\n\nThey don't know that LEARNING how to truly feel good in THIS moment is the one skill we all must continue to improve upon, for the rest of our lives"},{"_id":"73a9b2d53319f9244a00019d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172139,"position":2,"parentId":"73a565ac3319f9244a0001a7","content":"They don't know that feeling great is the mission of our lives, connected to the meaning of our lives - FEELING\n\nALL WE HAVE IS FEELING"},{"_id":"73a4e5243319f9244a0001b9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172428,"position":3,"parentId":"73a565ac3319f9244a0001a7","content":"Everything we do or can do is simply to help others feel something - usually to feel good. HOW we do this depends on on skills and interests. When we help others feel good in the ways that matter to us, that also help us feel great - we all win. When we don't, life can seem pointless and unforgiving (until we learn and pivot)."},{"_id":"73a52fbb3319f9244a0001b6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172273,"position":0.75,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"What does it take for you to feel good? (IN THIS MOMENT)"},{"_id":"73a560c03319f9244a0001a8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172692,"position":0.875,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"We need to give ourselves permission to feel good"},{"_id":"73a566683319f9244a0001a6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186271,"position":1,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Everything is feeling - feeling is the meaning of our lives"},{"_id":"73a43ed23319f9244a0001ba","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186407,"position":2.5,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"It's not only our mission, but our RESPONSIBILITY TO LEARN HOW TO TRULY FEEL GREAT"},{"_id":"73987afd3319f9244a0001c0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186448,"position":2.875,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"We do things to feel good, however its all trial and error until we really learn\n\nThis is the problem with the world 0 civilisation on every scale\n\n`Could expand more - 3`"},{"_id":"73a389703319f9244a0001bb","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186450,"position":3.25,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Better education and understanding is what we all need. But, education in the RIGHT areas - FEELING+\n\n`Could expand more - 3`"},{"_id":"73a9b3093319f9244a00019c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172133,"position":4,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Why don't people feel great?"},{"_id":"73a9b1eb3319f9244a00019e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13168714,"position":2,"parentId":"73a9b3093319f9244a00019c","content":"They haven't given themselves permission to feel good\n\nThey don't think they deserve to feel good"},{"_id":"73a545143319f9244a0001ab","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186478,"position":4.5,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"# Turning expectation into appreciation\n\nThis is the greatest skill we can and must each learn. Without this skill, we're destined to feel frustrated, angry and conflicted, simply because people, situations and anything else aren't behaving as we expect."},{"_id":"73a537ed3319f9244a0001b0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186482,"position":1,"parentId":"73a545143319f9244a0001ab","content":"Improve your expectations - BEST way is turning them into appreciations"},{"_id":"73a539333319f9244a0001af","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186479,"position":4.75,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Improve your feedback loop - SENSES (awareness through to feelings awareness)\n\nLiving through your senses"},{"_id":"73a545423319f9244a0001aa","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172179,"position":5,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Best ways to feel good"},{"_id":"73a541fc3319f9244a0001ac","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172192,"position":1,"parentId":"73a545423319f9244a0001aa","content":"Being good at something\nUnderstanding and being understood"},{"_id":"73a53fc83319f9244a0001ad","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172186,"position":6,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Common ways to feel good"},{"_id":"73a53fa13319f9244a0001ae","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172188,"position":1,"parentId":"73a53fc83319f9244a0001ad","content":"Not disappointing others\nNot failing (bad though)"},{"_id":"73a537153319f9244a0001b1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186486,"position":7,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"# SHARING (SHOWING) APPRECIATION\n\nAppreciation felt with the help of others, that is not shared is not shared with them and others you come into contact with is appreciation wasted."},{"_id":"73a536623319f9244a0001b2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186487,"position":8,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"# Who do you CARE ABOUT?\n\n## How do THEY like to feel good?\n\nThe distinction between how you like to feel good and how someone else likes to feel good is a common stumbling block - many mistakenly take action that they themselves like, without realising that we each have similar AND DIFFERENT needs and wants\n\nTaking the right action for the right reasons shows that you understand the person you care for - and at the end of the day - don't we all just want to feel understood and cared for?"},{"_id":"73a5349c3319f9244a0001b3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186490,"position":9,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"# APPRECIATION IS EVERYTHING\n\nWhen we appreciate, we feel good\n\nWhen we feel good, we are actually appreciating through feeling"},{"_id":"73a533c33319f9244a0001b4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186492,"position":1,"parentId":"73a5349c3319f9244a0001b3","content":"# Improve our ability to feel and share appreciation - GET BACK TO APPRECIATION\n\nEverything is for feeling good.\n\nWe appreciate what we feel good about. It can be tricky to just 'feel good', as there are many factors that make up feeling good. However, we can improve our ability to feel appreciation whenever we want to."},{"_id":"73a531d23319f9244a0001b5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172245,"position":10,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"The longest journey we will ever take is from our brain to our heart"},{"_id":"75aa98f98fda5abafe0000b8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172265,"position":11,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"We're all here to feel good\nWe're all here to learn how to truly feel good, for ourselves and for those we care about\nIt's YOUR responsibility to feel good\nIt's your ROLE to help those you care about to learn how to and to feel good (if they are under your care, or you simply care for them) `(you will also feel good too)`"},{"_id":"75aa361f8a4dbd38510000be","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186525,"position":0.25,"parentId":"75aa98f98fda5abafe0000b8","content":"*Be around people with similar feel good interests and actions, ASSUMING you know how to feel good, and are around the right people*"},{"_id":"75aa7f808fda5abafe0000b9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186512,"position":1,"parentId":"75aa98f98fda5abafe0000b8","content":"*We ALL go through tough times. This conflict in our past or present, if we so choose to learn from, can teach us how to truly feel great now and in the future.*"},{"_id":"75aa5e158fda5abafe0000bb","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186526,"position":1.5,"parentId":"75aa98f98fda5abafe0000b8","content":"*The GREATEST way to feel good is through appreciation.\n*\n*When we truly feel appreciation, we let go of what should have been, and accept and appreciate what is and will be*"},{"_id":"75aa786a8fda5abafe0000ba","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186528,"position":2,"parentId":"75aa98f98fda5abafe0000b8","content":"*If you expect a lot, or greatly different to what actually happened or is happening, you'll likely NOT feel good.*\n\n*IF you want something MASSIVE to happen to feel good, you've forfeit feeling good, and you likely prevent others from feeling good.*\n\n(Trump<)"},{"_id":"73a4f9093319f9244a0001b8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172369,"position":12,"parentId":"73a5690e3319f9244a0001a5","content":"Deeper understanding is needed"},{"_id":"73a5c9f83319f9244a0001a2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13171973,"position":5.960464477539063e-8,"parentId":null,"content":"I feels great now that:"},{"_id":"73a5c9803319f9244a0001a3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13171991,"position":1,"parentId":"73a5c9f83319f9244a0001a2","content":"I have reached 30,000 people, helping to improve and enrich their lives.\n\nI have attracted over $200,000 in profit, and the number is growing everyday."},{"_id":"73a5749c3319f9244a0001a4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172089,"position":2,"parentId":"73a5c9f83319f9244a0001a2","content":"I have my White Mercedes 2016"},{"_id":"73a9a8a63319f9244a0001a0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13168747,"position":1.7881393432617188e-7,"parentId":null,"content":"WHY DO THIS - ?"},{"_id":"73a9a87f3319f9244a0001a1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13168822,"position":1,"parentId":"73a9a8a63319f9244a0001a0","content":"Because the whole world will prosper when we honour and accomplish our life mission TOGETHER\n\nWe've been moving backwards - our societies operate in a way that don't help and improve how ALL LIVING THINGS FEEL"},{"_id":"7469c8ba6eaa43ea1c00017e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011039,"position":2.384185791015625e-7,"parentId":null,"content":"WHAT DO YOU WANT?"},{"_id":"745ef13d953eb157f8000198","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020496,"position":0.625,"parentId":"7469c8ba6eaa43ea1c00017e","content":"OUTLINE"},{"_id":"745ef0ff953eb157f8000199","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020509,"position":1,"parentId":"745ef13d953eb157f8000198","content":"Introduce feeling good as the true universal want\n\nHelp people realise that we do everything for feeling - GO SLOW AND STEADY HERE"},{"_id":"7469f9cc1f8e43e92100017c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011065,"position":0.75,"parentId":"7469c8ba6eaa43ea1c00017e","content":"# What do YOU want?"},{"_id":"745ef82f953eb157f8000197","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020488,"position":0.25,"parentId":"7469f9cc1f8e43e92100017c","content":""},{"_id":"746afe201f8e43e921000164","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011087,"position":0.5,"parentId":"7469f9cc1f8e43e92100017c","content":"## What do you want?\n\nThis is perhaps the most important question we can ask ourselves throughout our lives."},{"_id":"7469f9681f8e43e92100017d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010889,"position":1,"parentId":"7469f9cc1f8e43e92100017c","content":"Everything we do, we do to feel good. It's what we all want.\n\nSo, everything that you do, is to help others feel good. So you simply need to find the thing that you do that feels good for you AND for others - SIMPLE.\n\nIt will change over time, as it should. Life context changes, our wants and interests change. But the principle stays the same:\n\n**Find what feels great - *for you and for others***"},{"_id":"746b64b21f8e43e92100014a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011060,"position":3,"parentId":"7469f9cc1f8e43e92100017c","content":"We're here to feel\nWe're here to learn how to truly feel great, for ourselves and those we care about\n\nSome don't know this universal truth\n\nSome for whatever reason have not given themselves permission to feel great - \n## `SECTION ON THIS`\n\n-------\n\nSome simply don't know how to feel great\n\n\nOur universal life mission is simple - learn how to truly feel great"},{"_id":"746a9dbd1f8e43e92100016b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010494,"position":2,"parentId":"746b64b21f8e43e92100014a","content":"Feeling good is so obvious and simple. It's what we're here to do. But when you're not feeling good, it can seem bizarre or impossible to get to a place where you can feel good again."},{"_id":"7469bbe16eaa43ea1c00017f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011092,"position":4,"parentId":"7469f9cc1f8e43e92100017c","content":"`To add later - ?`\n\nI invite you to take a moment - as much time as you'd like to try and answer this question. Your answer might be a long list, it might be one sentence.\nWhatever it is, it isn;'t wrong. It's what you want right now."},{"_id":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011041,"position":1,"parentId":"7469c8ba6eaa43ea1c00017e","content":"# HOW TO FEEL GREAT"},{"_id":"745c97acf6c1454b5900019a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13021868,"position":1.25,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"Balance need for necessary self awareness"},{"_id":"746b024b1f8e43e921000162","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011025,"position":2.5,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"# CHAPTER 0\n## What happens when you don't know what you want?\n\n## What happens when you don't know how to feel great?"},{"_id":"746b01631f8e43e921000163","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010293,"position":1,"parentId":"746b024b1f8e43e921000162","content":"When you don't know how to feel great, the most common thing is to do something GREATLY FEEL. This is often done through either the overconsumption of the wrong things, and / or doing something to "},{"_id":"7469ba736eaa43ea1c000180","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011110,"position":2,"parentId":"746b024b1f8e43e921000162","content":"Until we know what we want, we DON'T know.\n\nI know, you're probably thinking - \"thanks captain obvious...\" - however, this truth his hidden so well in plain sight, that's it seems almost completely overlooked by the majority of our species.\n\nSo until you figure out what you want, you're trying to figure out what you want.\nUnfortunately, part of that is trial and error. And for some, the trial part can continue long after the error first begin.\nIt's easy to romanticise something, to the point where we become numb or blissfully ignorant to the error in our actions or intentions."},{"_id":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010241,"position":3,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"# CHAPTER 1\n## Brief intro into the universal models for feeling great"},{"_id":"746a8e181f8e43e921000171","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010537,"position":0.5,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"TO DO\n\nGroup these into applicable groupings\nAssign a ranking order, like a ladder - **HOWEVER you don't need to go through all of these to reach level 10**"},{"_id":"746b358d1f8e43e921000155","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010244,"position":1,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Being good at something"},{"_id":"746b0d141f8e43e921000161","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010290,"position":1,"parentId":"746b358d1f8e43e921000155","content":"Being good at something is great. It gives us the validation we need, while also giving as an outlet to express ourselves - our interests, skills and abilities, while also ultimately helping someone else to feel great."},{"_id":"746847dfcbeecd13cf000189","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012438,"position":2,"parentId":"746b358d1f8e43e921000155","content":"Be good at something useful\n\nThat doesn't just mean a trade. It means something that helps others as well as you to feel good."},{"_id":"746b35461f8e43e921000156","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010245,"position":2,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Not being in trouble"},{"_id":"746b34e71f8e43e921000157","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010249,"position":3,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Being understood"},{"_id":"746b32011f8e43e921000158","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010250,"position":4,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Being cared for and caring for something"},{"_id":"746b31b61f8e43e921000159","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010509,"position":5,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Being part of something"},{"_id":"746a935e1f8e43e92100016c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010510,"position":5.25,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Hope"},{"_id":"74634c4c2411f53bac00018a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13016439,"position":1,"parentId":"746a935e1f8e43e92100016c","content":"A great way to think and feel about life and money:\n\nThere is so much money out there. The challenge isn't to make lots of money. The worthy challenge is to find what you're here to do, what fills you and those you care about with great feelings AND make money.\n\nThis who work really hard and put everything else on hold to make money find a bittersweet taste in their mouths. When they realise that what they worked so hard for might not have been worth it.\n\nWhen you live your life, looking for the things that give you and others great feelings, AND the money and abundance you want - then EVERYONE WINS.\n\n# `EXPAND ON THIS`"},{"_id":"746a934e1f8e43e92100016d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010513,"position":5.375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Faith"},{"_id":"746a92e41f8e43e92100016e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010523,"position":5.4375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Love"},{"_id":"74686ec06eaa43ea1c000181","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012361,"position":5.453125,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Being healthy"},{"_id":"74686e486eaa43ea1c000182","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012363,"position":5.4609375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Exercise"},{"_id":"746867accbeecd13cf000183","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012368,"position":5.46484375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Learning"},{"_id":"7468678ecbeecd13cf000184","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012370,"position":5.466796875,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Rising to the challenge"},{"_id":"7468639acbeecd13cf000185","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012372,"position":5.4677734375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Expressing yourself"},{"_id":"74686360cbeecd13cf000186","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012373,"position":5.46826171875,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Venting"},{"_id":"746a90901f8e43e92100016f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010525,"position":5.46875,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Tension and release"},{"_id":"746a90311f8e43e921000170","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010526,"position":5.484375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Contrast"},{"_id":"746a88e01f8e43e921000172","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010543,"position":5.4921875,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Consumption"},{"_id":"746a88aa1f8e43e921000173","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010544,"position":5.49609375,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Senses"},{"_id":"746ab4cc1f8e43e921000168","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010447,"position":5.5,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Connection\nIncluding love, but not exclusive"},{"_id":"746b2ee01f8e43e92100015a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010258,"position":6,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Improving things - being part of a better change"},{"_id":"746b2e6f1f8e43e92100015b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010260,"position":7,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Solving problems"},{"_id":"746b2dd61f8e43e92100015c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010459,"position":8,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Helping others to feel great"},{"_id":"746aabaa1f8e43e921000169","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010461,"position":8.5,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Respect"},{"_id":"746a82851f8e43e921000176","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010551,"position":8.75,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Admiration / APPRECIATION"},{"_id":"746b2b591f8e43e92100015d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010263,"position":9,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"Turning expectation into appreciation"},{"_id":"746ab6381f8e43e921000166","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010443,"position":10,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"## Not great:\n\nControl\n\nHave power over others"},{"_id":"746ab5191f8e43e921000167","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010444,"position":11,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":""},{"_id":"746a39f81f8e43e921000177","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010717,"position":12,"parentId":"746b60451f8e43e92100014c","content":"What DOESN'T feel good"},{"_id":"746a39971f8e43e921000178","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010719,"position":1,"parentId":"746a39f81f8e43e921000177","content":"Loss\n\nUnmet expectations"},{"_id":"746b59571f8e43e92100014d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010220,"position":4,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"# CHAPTER 2\nThe best way to feel great"},{"_id":"746b58ad1f8e43e92100014e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172168,"position":1,"parentId":"746b59571f8e43e92100014d","content":"# Turning expectation into appreciation\n\nThis is the greatest skill we can and must each learn. Without this skill, we're destined to feel frustrated, angry and conflicted, simply because people, situations and anything else aren't behaving as we expect."},{"_id":"746b40061f8e43e921000154","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010240,"position":1.5,"parentId":"746b59571f8e43e92100014d","content":"## Being good at the right things"},{"_id":"746b582e1f8e43e92100014f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010225,"position":2,"parentId":"746b59571f8e43e92100014d","content":"# When are 'expectations' are good for you?"},{"_id":"746b56da1f8e43e921000150","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010229,"position":1,"parentId":"746b582e1f8e43e92100014f","content":"When the expectations are fair and just - when they lead to great and necessary growth.\n\nHOWEVER - living in and from the expectations is not enough. If all you have in you, and all you take action from is your expectations, then everything you do will be ruined.\n\nTake Martin Luther King. His expectations (Dream) were damn right. However, he didn't allow the hate or feelings of hurt to be the message. He channeled his expectations into a way that would ultimately reach those who needed to hear it the most."},{"_id":"746a34021f8e43e92100017b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010738,"position":3,"parentId":"746b59571f8e43e92100014d","content":"# WALK IT"},{"_id":"746b243a1f8e43e92100015e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010265,"position":5,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"# CHAPTER 3\nBeing good at something(s)"},{"_id":"746b23851f8e43e92100015f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010279,"position":1,"parentId":"746b243a1f8e43e92100015e","content":"One of the most common reasons people struggle is because they don't yet know what they need to be good at.\n\nWhile there are many ways to learn how to do something, the most important aspect of anything is the WHY.\n\nWhen you understand the why, the path forward becomes much clearer. When you work towards the why, you do what is necessary. You have a better chance at making the right decision in the heat of the moment, because you have the right destination in mind."},{"_id":"746b1ee01f8e43e921000160","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010285,"position":1,"parentId":"746b23851f8e43e92100015f","content":"The ultimate WHY is feeling great. It's really that simple.\n\nWhatever you are doing, there is always someone else involved. Be it a customer or staff member - all parts of the process must feel good, especially the *thing* that you *do*.\n\nTo identify the WHY of what you are doing, you need to figure out what makes it important to you, and to others."},{"_id":"746a88501f8e43e921000174","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010547,"position":6,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"# Getting back to feeling\n## NOT just thinking"},{"_id":"746a87e31f8e43e921000175","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010548,"position":1,"parentId":"746a88501f8e43e921000174","content":"Through senses"},{"_id":"746a38381f8e43e921000179","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010727,"position":2,"parentId":"746a88501f8e43e921000174","content":"Coming back from doing something bad"},{"_id":"746a37f61f8e43e92100017a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010733,"position":1,"parentId":"746a38381f8e43e921000179","content":"If you've hurt someone else, it will be somewhat unfair for you to feel good without making reparations."},{"_id":"74684bfdcbeecd13cf000187","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012405,"position":3,"parentId":"746a88501f8e43e921000174","content":"What stops us from feeling?\n\nBeing hurt - loss, failure+\nGetting it WRONG"},{"_id":"7468492fcbeecd13cf000188","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13012408,"position":7,"parentId":"746b651e1f8e43e921000149","content":"How do you spend most of your time?\n\nThere are insights to be learned from this"},{"_id":"746b4a7d1f8e43e921000151","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13011042,"position":2,"parentId":"7469c8ba6eaa43ea1c00017e","content":"# HOW TO HELP OTHERS FEEL GREAT"},{"_id":"746b4a111f8e43e921000152","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010232,"position":1,"parentId":"746b4a7d1f8e43e921000151","content":"# INTRO"},{"_id":"746b49c61f8e43e921000153","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010234,"position":1,"parentId":"746b4a111f8e43e921000152","content":"Besides truly feeling great for ourselves, the only other thing we can do, and care to do is help those we care about to feel great.\n\nIf you are a parent, guardian, or in charge of anyone else’s wellbeing – your primary task is to help those under your charge feel great – to truly feel great."},{"_id":"746af6cc1f8e43e921000165","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010296,"position":2,"parentId":"746b4a7d1f8e43e921000151","content":"The answer is to not punish, but to rise the tide to float ALL boats"},{"_id":"746aa4181f8e43e92100016a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13010478,"position":3,"parentId":"746b4a7d1f8e43e921000151","content":"# CHAPTER 1\n## Who do you care about?"},{"_id":"745d1484f6c1454b59000199","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13021529,"position":4,"parentId":"746b4a7d1f8e43e921000151","content":"# CHAPTER 2\n\n## How good are you at helping others to feel good?\nTHAT'S WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT"},{"_id":"6e42daca41ff4d3d9a0001d2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":14408225,"position":4.172325134277344e-7,"parentId":null,"content":""},{"_id":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020325,"position":5.960464477539062e-7,"parentId":null,"content":"MAYBE"},{"_id":"745f3260953eb157f800018e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020335,"position":0.5,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"MUST ADD\n\nWhen we don't know what we want to feel, we'll keep bashing against the edges and people - searching for feelings by making others feel GREATLY (usually badly)"},{"_id":"745f1a5d953eb157f8000191","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020385,"position":1,"parentId":"745f3260953eb157f800018e","content":"Figuring out what you want largely comes down to realising what actions and outcomes feel the greatest, while being good for us and those meaningful to us. If it were that simple to communicate this message, this book would end here. However, there are many reasons why we may find it difficult to understand and connect to what we want to do and have - understanding our interest and skills, our world and life perspective, honouring what we care about, surviving and growing through whatever challenging moments life brings, feeling numb and disconnected due to prolonged and sustained action that isn’t inline with truly feeling great, to name just a few."},{"_id":"745f085f953eb157f8000195","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020458,"position":2,"parentId":"745f3260953eb157f800018e","content":"Finding the right answers means asking the right questions. If you are asking yourself - ‘what do I want?’, possibly for the first time in a very long time, _or ever_ - you’re finally focusing on the right question."},{"_id":"745f1053953eb157f8000192","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020396,"position":0.625,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"Perspective examples / cycle disruptors - ?"},{"_id":"745f0ff4953eb157f8000193","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020397,"position":1,"parentId":"745f1053953eb157f8000192","content":"\nHowever, there are many reasons why we may find it difficult to understand and connect to what we want to do and have - understanding our interest and skills, our world and life perspective, honouring what we care about, surviving and growing through whatever challenging moments life brings, feeling numb and disconnected due to prolonged and sustained action that isn’t inline with truly feeling great, to name just a few.\n\n\nOur perspective (our view of the world and ourselves in it) can vary depending on the context and how we feel in each moment. Throughout this book, you’ll find perspective examples that might challenge how you view things.\n\nPerspective example 1.\nLife, like a beautiful piece of music, unfolds in a way in which the performer and audience have an experience of feeling. The goal is the same - it isn’t to reach the last note (or final days of life), otherwise all songs would be extremely short and climactic! The goal is to feel each moment, for all that moment brings. Each moment, each note or lyrical phrase tells a part of a story, and the story makes more sense when you pay more attention to all the parts. If you are playing life to get to an end result at the expense of feeling each moment - whatever you are doing will almost certainly not be enough. {If it isn’t enough to help you feel good **now**, while you are in the process of taking action, then there’s little hope it’s good enough to help you reach what you *think* you want.}\n"},{"_id":"745f0177953eb157f8000196","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020484,"position":0.65625,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"With countless books and resources available to help you be successful - the one thing that matters most is - what do you actually _want_ to do?"},{"_id":"745f0ee7953eb157f8000194","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020402,"position":0.6875,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"\n### The order:\nWe need to know what we want, then know how to get it, then do what it takes\n\nFIRST - we need to know how to get the understanding of what we want"},{"_id":"745f1d5a953eb157f800018f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020378,"position":0.75,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"Worst of all - if you have lived your life like this for an extended period of time, you may have become good at not feeling good."},{"_id":"745f36e2953eb157f800018c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020379,"position":1,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"When you don’t know what you want, it may seem almost impossible to actually accomplish it. After all - how can you accomplish anything if you don’t actually know what IT is?"},{"_id":"745f347e953eb157f800018d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13020380,"position":2,"parentId":"745f36fe953eb157f800018b","content":"The major problem is that many seem to not either learn from their experiences, improving their wants, or more so - many people do not seem to know how to learn from some or all of their experiences to develop and move towards what they ACTUALLY WANT.\nLike anything universal, developing great Models for Feeling and Models for Wanting are often overlooked. This is similar to learning how to breath better, or eat better, or sleep better. Once a person has been around for ‘long enough’, it seems as though they know enough to get by, to get enough, so there is little point in learning more. Besides a life long journey of discovery, one of the major reasons why this book was written was because of the state of our world. There will always be outliers in any society, who’s actions are almost impossible to understand. For the majority of people however, much of the conflict seems to come from a lack of understanding. This understanding isn’t based in scholastic IQ, it’s more of a systemic problem that comes down to the meaning of our lives - how we FEEL."},{"_id":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12992284,"position":9.5367431640625e-7,"parentId":null,"content":"NEW SESSION"},{"_id":"747006e7deb9551a1e000145","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006337,"position":0.5,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"# GREATEST LESSONS"},{"_id":"747006b5deb9551a1e000146","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006343,"position":1,"parentId":"747006e7deb9551a1e000145","content":"Learning how to feel good is EVERYTHING\nHow to learn how to feel good:\n- Awareness of your impact on others | where that ends and where others feelings are their own"},{"_id":"74700357deb9551a1e000147","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006344,"position":1,"parentId":"747006b5deb9551a1e000146","content":"Responsibility of feelings - where does it being and end for each other?"},{"_id":"746e67801f8e43e921000145","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008269,"position":2,"parentId":"747006e7deb9551a1e000145","content":"Turning expectation into appreciation is the universal essential skill"},{"_id":"747ca865eecc1cf0a900012a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008276,"position":1,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"## Feeling is EVERYTHING - we live in a feelings world\n\nFULL SECTION ON THIS\n# `ON HOLD`"},{"_id":"7470cfd9deb9551a1e000137","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008275,"position":1,"parentId":"747ca865eecc1cf0a900012a","content":"Everything we do, we do to feel good, or to learn how to feel good. When we stop learning how to feel good, we start doing things for the wrong reasons, and this creates so much conflict, inside us, and the world around us.\n\nFeeling is literally and figuratively the meaning of our lives. We are here to learn hot to truly feel great, for ourselves and those we care about.\n\nWe live in a feelings world. Our existence is feeling. Feeling is the meaning of our lives.\n\nWhy else do we do anything?"},{"_id":"7470c5aadeb9551a1e000138","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13005992,"position":1,"parentId":"7470cfd9deb9551a1e000137","content":"Every action creates a feeling. "},{"_id":"7470bc9adeb9551a1e000139","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006008,"position":2,"parentId":"7470cfd9deb9551a1e000137","content":"TRUMP EXAMPLE\n\nEverything we do, we do to feel good, or to learn how to feel good. When we stop learning how to feel good, we start doing things for the wrong reasons, and this creates so much conflict, inside us, and the world around us."},{"_id":"746fd49ddeb9551a1e00014a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006417,"position":2,"parentId":"747ca865eecc1cf0a900012a","content":"EVERYTHING is for the function of FEELING. Feeling is at the heart of everything - the ultimate and universal WHY.\n\nLife is the opportunity to feel. We have our whole lives to feel and to help others feel, in the face and or wake of the context of our lives.\n\nWe choose how we feel by the frame we put around the experience."},{"_id":"746fa61cdeb9551a1e00014b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006509,"position":1,"parentId":"746fd49ddeb9551a1e00014a","content":"TV shows and movie - they are all stories about how the characters FEEL, taking the viewers on a journey of feelings."},{"_id":"747099c0deb9551a1e00013d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006099,"position":1.375,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"## The mission - Truly feeling great"},{"_id":"7470ad0fdeb9551a1e00013b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008281,"position":0.125,"parentId":"747099c0deb9551a1e00013d","content":"## Learning how to truly feel good, for ourselves and those we care about is why we are here.\n\n### `Turning expectation into appreciation`\n\n(Ever expanding circle of caring)"},{"_id":"7470accedeb9551a1e00013c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006068,"position":1,"parentId":"7470ad0fdeb9551a1e00013b","content":"We are all going through our own journey. The destination is not a place. It is both truly feeling great, born from the learning of how to feel great. When we each learn how to feel great, we can apply what we have learned to the many different life experiences we have and will each face, meaning we can truly feel great more often."},{"_id":"74705a4ddeb9551a1e000143","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006212,"position":0.25,"parentId":"747099c0deb9551a1e00013d","content":"How to feel good"},{"_id":"747059fadeb9551a1e000144","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006335,"position":1,"parentId":"74705a4ddeb9551a1e000143","content":"Being good at something\nHelping others to feel good"},{"_id":"747062e1deb9551a1e000141","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006193,"position":0.5,"parentId":"747099c0deb9551a1e00013d","content":"What does TRULY feeling great entail - ?"},{"_id":"74705ad6deb9551a1e000142","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006206,"position":1,"parentId":"747062e1deb9551a1e000141","content":"# Improve our ability to feel and share appreciation - GET BACK TO APPRECIATION"},{"_id":"74709536deb9551a1e00013e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006102,"position":1,"parentId":"747099c0deb9551a1e00013d","content":"We’ve got to find true appreciation – more than just living for this moment, doing so while also achieving something great that you are here for."},{"_id":"746e50e51f8e43e921000146","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008292,"position":1.40625,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"## How to truly feel great - for ourselves"},{"_id":"746e503f1f8e43e921000147","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008293,"position":1.421875,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"## How to help others truly feel great"},{"_id":"746e4eb81f8e43e921000148","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13008299,"position":1,"parentId":"746e503f1f8e43e921000147","content":"We all want the same things - to feel good. We must realise that we are all similar in that we are all trying to find the best ways to truly feel great. The caveat here is that some of us are at different ends of the spectrum than others. THIS CAN BE FRUSTRATING - and can lead to the C's will always be C's prinicple"},{"_id":"747085f5deb9551a1e00013f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006137,"position":1.4375,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"## FEEDBACK LOOP"},{"_id":"747085b3deb9551a1e000140","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006145,"position":1,"parentId":"747085f5deb9551a1e00013f","content":"How to know when you're not feeling good?\n\n- You don't feel good\n- You're not experiencing the success you want\n- Those around you aren't happy"},{"_id":"746f8378deb9551a1e00014c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006539,"position":2,"parentId":"747085f5deb9551a1e00013f","content":"How do we feel?"},{"_id":"746f8349deb9551a1e00014d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006541,"position":1,"parentId":"746f8378deb9551a1e00014c","content":"Senses\n\nPerspective - analogous"},{"_id":"746f7ee3deb9551a1e00014e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006549,"position":3,"parentId":"747085f5deb9551a1e00013f","content":"What do we want to feel"},{"_id":"746f7ea5deb9551a1e00014f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006550,"position":1,"parentId":"746f7ee3deb9551a1e00014e","content":"Understand\n\nPart of something greater\n\nCare for / loved\n\nConnected\n\nIn control"},{"_id":"7470b1b1deb9551a1e00013a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006038,"position":1.5,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"When we don't know how to feel good, or even that that is the point - we do things to FEEL something.\n\nSo much crime occurs from either lashing out to feel something greatly, or out of believed necessity."},{"_id":"746fd78bdeb9551a1e000148","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13006387,"position":1.75,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":"QUOTES"},{"_id":"746fd772deb9551a1e000149","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172243,"position":1,"parentId":"746fd78bdeb9551a1e000148","content":"The longest journey we will ever take is from our brain to our heart"},{"_id":"747ca774eecc1cf0a900012b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12992382,"position":2,"parentId":"747ca8b8eecc1cf0a9000129","content":""},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12841876,"position":0.0000019073486328125,"parentId":null,"content":"FEEL GOOD COACH"},{"_id":"753062faa8837d2d6a000106","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843343,"position":0.0625,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"Steps"},{"_id":"753062d3a8837d2d6a000107","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843345,"position":1,"parentId":"753062faa8837d2d6a000106","content":"Assess current models for feeling good"},{"_id":"7530626ea8837d2d6a000108","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843426,"position":2,"parentId":"753062faa8837d2d6a000106","content":"Decide on next action:\n\nPerspective shift - understanding the intentions of others\nTurning expectations into appreciation\nFinding purpose\nHelping others - to feel good\nHelping yourself - to feel good"},{"_id":"753057f6a8837d2d6a000109","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843369,"position":0.09375,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"Ways to reach people"},{"_id":"7530498ea8837d2d6a00010a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843409,"position":1,"parentId":"753057f6a8837d2d6a000109","content":"Gumtree\nWebsite\nFacebook\n"},{"_id":"7530245da8837d2d6a00010b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843410,"position":0.109375,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"How to BEST effectively help people"},{"_id":"753023d9a8837d2d6a00010c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12843424,"position":1,"parentId":"7530245da8837d2d6a00010b","content":"Coaching - over the phone\n"},{"_id":"752e42b2a8837d2d6a00010e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12844418,"position":0.1171875,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"Payment"},{"_id":"752e428ca8837d2d6a00010f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12844419,"position":1,"parentId":"752e42b2a8837d2d6a00010e","content":"You pay what it is worth to you, when it is worth something\nFirst 10 minute session is free\nI'm working towards not being needed (best case scenario - I teach you how to teach yourself)"},{"_id":"75339a32b3f05b5619000101","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12841882,"position":0.125,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"NEW","deleted":false},{"_id":"7533993cb3f05b5619000102","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12841894,"position":1,"parentId":"75339a32b3f05b5619000101","content":"How to make a great deal of money WHILE helping a great deal of people"},{"_id":"753388b4b3f05b5619000103","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12841897,"position":1,"parentId":"7533993cb3f05b5619000102","content":"In the last few days - what happened that helped you feel good - ?\n\n\" \"... feel bad - ?"},{"_id":"75335721b3f05b5619000104","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12841932,"position":2,"parentId":"75339a32b3f05b5619000101","content":"Ways to feel good:\n\nPerspective\n"},{"_id":"7531a8e3a8837d2d6a000105","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12842976,"position":0.1875,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"We are here to feel good. If we are not FEELING, if we are instead thinking life, we are not living it. We are destined to be hit by life (feeling) in reaction to a great and powerful universal life moment\n\nI have in the past too easily detached from life, perhaps scared of losing things"},{"_id":"75aa4d708fda5abafe0000bc","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785508,"position":0.25,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"FEEL GOOD SOLUTIONS"},{"_id":"75aa4c848fda5abafe0000bd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785515,"position":1,"parentId":"75aa4d708fda5abafe0000bc","content":"Appreciation (perspective and senses)\nVent\nSenses"},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033516","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12778866,"position":0.5,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# `Write two parts`\n\nFor Jordan\n\n## For Paul\nThinking that you are right\nReligious doctrine that doesn't not serve the betterment of mankind now, IN THE MOMENT AND TIME does nothing\n\nALSO\n\nPart for M - overeating"},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f92703363f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768292,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# Do you know what you want?\n\nAre you doing what you want to?\n\nDo you know what you want to do?"},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033640","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768278,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f92703363f","content":"What we all want is to feel good. Some actions feel better than others. Some actions are more in line with what we care about, as well as our natural and learned skills.\n\nThe other important aspect of doing what feels good is how it helps others your are about to feel."},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033642","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768280,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f927033640","content":"Do you know how you like to help others feel good?\nAre you present, in the moments that matter to even NOTICE or SEE your positive effect on others?"},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033641","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768328,"position":2,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f92703363f","content":"We like what we like. We care what we care about. If we set a goal, we assign the ideal that we will feel great WHEN WE REACH that goal.\n\nThe difference in living a life that feels great, is that you do what truly feels great now. Because it truly feels great now, it will continue to feel great in the future.\n\nToo many of us are chasing a feel great moment that might not exist. It's so easy to work towards accomplishing something while forsaking this moment entirely.\n\nAnswer this question - WHY is accomplishing that goal so important?\n\nAsk yourself why again, and continue to, until you reach the universal WHY - because it (will) feel good.\n\nBalancing feeling good now, and feeling good later is important. Some goals and missions are so massive and important, that the tension and release ratio is skewed more so on tension for a longer period, with a quicker but potent release moment.\n\n\nUnless you're trying to get humanity to Mars, speed up the advent to sustainable energy, or the many other missions out there... What you are doing is not worth sacrificing feeling great now."},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033643","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726938,"position":3,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f92703363f","content":""},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033644","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726939,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f927033643","content":""},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033645","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726940,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f927033644","content":""},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033646","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726941,"position":2,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f927033644","content":""},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033647","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726942,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c755e8d84f927033646","content":""},{"_id":"5a969c3c5e8d84f927033613","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785355,"position":1.5625,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# Do you know that feeling great is the point?\n\nBoth never-ending the journey and destination?"},{"_id":"5a969c3c5e8d84f927033614","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768303,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c3c5e8d84f927033613","content":"All we have is how we feel, and how we help others we care about to feel\n\nEverything we do, everything we experience, consume and create - we do for the FEELING (collective and individual)"},{"_id":"5a969ca25e8d84f927033658","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768332,"position":2,"parentId":"5a969c3c5e8d84f927033613","content":"Allowing yourself to feel again can be tricky. We all have or will go through difficult and challenging times. Losing a loved one, and experiencing the grief that follows can be more than enough to make anyone want to not feel ever again.\n\nWorking through the disconnection, breaking through feeling numb, moving towards feeling good, feeling anything again can be the bravest thing we will ever do.\n\nIt can feel much easier to move through life without a connection to anything. Many attempt to cope with the emptiness and loneliness with consumption of the wrong things in the wrong amounts.\n\nThink about someone you care about. It could be a family member, friend, or anyone in the world that has made a great and lasting impact on you. End result that we want for anyone we love - a life that feels great.\nWHAT ABOUT OURSELVES?"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768308,"position":2.125,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# Expectation VS Appreciation\n\nWhat do you focus on most?\nMost of the time?\nMost of your effort / energy?\nMost reactively?"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703352b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768305,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351c","content":"## EXPECATATION\n"},{"_id":"5a969b945e8d84f9270335da","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768287,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703352b","content":"Don't rely on others to hoelp you feel good"},{"_id":"5a969b945e8d84f9270335db","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768283,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969b945e8d84f9270335da","content":"They likely either don't themselves realise that feeling good is the purpose of our lives, nor how to help you feel good"},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d75","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768307,"position":2,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351c","content":"## APPRECIATION"},{"_id":"5a969c755e8d84f927033648","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768322,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d75","content":"What do you feel appreciation for?\n\nDo you feel appreciation, or just THINK it?"},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008da6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768300,"position":5.5,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# VENT\nSome people just need a good vent, to release so they can fill up on "},{"_id":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dc6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768290,"position":5.75,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"First 20mins session FREE\n\nWhat feels good for you?\nDifferent types of consumption:\n\nDifferent types of action and creation:\n"},{"_id":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dc9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768314,"position":7.5,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# Evolving your model for feeling great"},{"_id":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dbf","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768313,"position":1,"parentId":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dc9","content":"We all have responsibilities. These are likely in the form of a job or employment - fulfilling the need of earning money to provide for yourself and loved ones.\n\nRealising that it's time for a change can be an empowering but tricky time for some. If you don't feel great doing what you do, you'll start to look for others ways to feel great, AND to help others feel great.\n\nFirst and foremost - the need to survive must be preserved. You can't feel your greatest if you are homeless and destitute. It's not wise to reactively quit your work, especially if you don't have a good idea of what to do next.\n\nThe best course of action is to improve your awareness and perspective of what you do now. There are aspects of almost any job that we can each take pride in. Without judgement, say you clean toilets for a living. While it might be a 'crappy' job at times, imagine these two scenarios:\n\nNot clean\nClean"},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186539,"position":9,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"*# How do you help those you care about to feel good?*"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703352a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12768317,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350c","content":"Who do you care about?"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703352c","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186541,"position":2,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350c","content":"## How do THEY like to feel good?\n\n*The distinction between how you like to feel good and how someone else likes to feel good is a common stumbling block - many mistakenly take action that they themselves like, without realising that we each have similar AND DIFFERENT needs and wants\n*\n*Taking the right action for the right reasons shows that you understand the person you care for - and at the end of the day - don't we all just want to feel understood and cared for?*"},{"_id":"75ac2d52df31511fb40000b0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186543,"position":3,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350c","content":"# SHARING (SHOWING) APPRECIATION\n\n*Appreciation felt with the help of others, that is not shared is not shared with them and others you come into contact with is appreciation wasted.*"},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033511","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12773837,"position":11,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"# Learning how to feel good"},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033513","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12773842,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f927033511","content":"We are here to learn how to truly feel good. Every moment of feeling is a moment we can learn from. When you don't learn from your feelings, you are designated to repeat similar situations and outcomes until you do."},{"_id":"5a9699f65e8d84f92703355a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12777004,"position":14,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d6e","content":"COMMON MISTAKES\n\nI assume others will get to the same understanding as fast (or FASTER) than it took me"},{"_id":"7585301a7918bb7165000100","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12803677,"position":0.000003814697265625,"parentId":null,"content":"Having massive expectations works if you are working towards them AND IF YOU ARE ACCOMPLISHING THE MAJOR FUNCTION - TRULY FEELING GREAT AND HELPING OTHERS TO FEEL GREAT"},{"_id":"7586bec77918bb71650000fe","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12802440,"position":0.00000762939453125,"parentId":null,"content":"The purpose of your lives is to DO what truly feels good - the reason WHY WE ARE HERE, WHY WE WERE BORN\n\nYou find it by paying attention to and honouring how you feel, improving how you feel and act BECAUSE OF HOW YOU FEEL\n\nWe do things to FEEL, and then we either GET BETTER st CHOOSING WHAT TO DO TO FEEL WHAT YOU WANT"},{"_id":"75866de07918bb71650000ff","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12802495,"position":1,"parentId":"7586bec77918bb71650000fe","content":"We are here to do something. Many don't live a purpose. Many don't find their purpose. Many don't realise the purpose in front of them.\n\nWhat is your KARMA ?"},{"_id":"759294346c1fec6f60000101","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795241,"position":0.0000152587890625,"parentId":null,"content":"I help people feel good\n\n\nI didn't fully with Carol, I tried, but I felt wronged and hurt"},{"_id":"7592c9586c1fec6f600000fb","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795081,"position":0.000030517578125,"parentId":null,"content":"THE FEELS"},{"_id":"7592b51a6c1fec6f600000fe","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795236,"position":0.5,"parentId":"7592c9586c1fec6f600000fb","content":"Feeling is EVERYTHING"},{"_id":"7592b4b86c1fec6f600000ff","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795235,"position":1,"parentId":"7592b51a6c1fec6f600000fe","content":"We do everything to feel great. For love. And more."},{"_id":"7592c8d96c1fec6f600000fc","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795083,"position":1,"parentId":"7592c9586c1fec6f600000fb","content":"How to feel good"},{"_id":"7592c8ac6c1fec6f600000fd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172220,"position":1,"parentId":"7592c8d96c1fec6f600000fc","content":"Improve your feedback loop - SENSES (awareness through to feelings awareness)\n\nLiving through your senses"},{"_id":"75931d536c1fec6f600000f7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172224,"position":2,"parentId":"7592c8d96c1fec6f600000fc","content":"Improve your expectations - BEST way is turning them into appreciations"},{"_id":"7592f5006c1fec6f600000fa","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795077,"position":0.5,"parentId":"75931d536c1fec6f600000f7","content":"First - it begins by knowing WHAT YOU WANT\n\nExpectations are wants. Do you actually know what you want? Rather than reactively feel something, and respond based on that expectation met / unmet feelings place - ?"},{"_id":"759319126c1fec6f600000f8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795052,"position":1,"parentId":"75931d536c1fec6f600000f7","content":"Expectations are wants and desires accompanied with absolution. \"Things must happen as I expect, otherwise I won't be happy\".\n\nThat sentence may sound funny, but it's the subtext many, if not all of us live by."},{"_id":"75930f3e6c1fec6f600000f9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795091,"position":3,"parentId":"7592c8d96c1fec6f600000fc","content":"Venting in the moment can feel good after, but cause more conflict to resolve."},{"_id":"7593a4866c1fec6f600000ed","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12794888,"position":0.0001220703125,"parentId":null,"content":"We love media because it helps us to feel something.\n\nLearning how to feel great - that is what it is all for."},{"_id":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791886,"position":0.000244140625,"parentId":null,"content":"THE BOOK"},{"_id":"759977266c1fec6f600000df","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791891,"position":1,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"Do you know that feeling is why we do anything and everything?\n\nAll we have is how we feel, and how we help others to feel - THAT IS EVERYTHING THERE IS"},{"_id":"7593d8d16c1fec6f600000e9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186573,"position":0.5,"parentId":"759977266c1fec6f600000df","content":"*Whatever you do, do it with feeling. That's the meaning.*"},{"_id":"75942bf76c1fec6f600000e8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186580,"position":1,"parentId":"759977266c1fec6f600000df","content":"*All that matters is feeling. Everything else is an extension of how we feel.\n*\n*What is the compelling and final outcome of anything we do? Yes, there is a function performance and achieved through the things we do, eg. eating food for nutrition and sustenance, working to pay the bills, etc. However, there is one main function above all else - how we feel.\n*\n*When we don't realise that feeling is the main function to achieve, when we don't live for the best of that, what results is confusion and conflict - much of how we are living in now.\n*\n*we don't do those things for just that reason. Often, we don't do those things because of that reason. We do them for the FEELING that comes from those things. The feeling in the anticipation, in the process, and afterwards.*"},{"_id":"7593b27d6c1fec6f600000ec","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12794870,"position":2,"parentId":"759977266c1fec6f600000df","content":"The rollercoaster of feelings - its what we are here for. To feel through the bad, and to feel the great."},{"_id":"759976866c1fec6f600000e0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791892,"position":2,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"We're here to learn how to truly feel great"},{"_id":"759910f36c1fec6f600000e7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186589,"position":1,"parentId":"759976866c1fec6f600000e0","content":"*Learning how to truly feel great, for ourselves and those we care about is our life's mission.\n*\n*This doesn't mean we always should or have to feel good. We're here to learn how to feel, and we all have and will have difficult and challenging experiences. Some, so painful that they can cause us to shy away from feelings, to become numb and disconnected.\n*\n*Whatever you feel, is true for you. The end goal for everything, even difficult times is to feel good again. \n*\n*Some experiences may lead us towards more shallow feel good actions.*"},{"_id":"759970ff6c1fec6f600000e1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791925,"position":3,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"There are many different ways to feel great - the most effective is through TURNING EXPECTATION `INTO APPRECIATION`"},{"_id":"759950586c1fec6f600000e2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186590,"position":1,"parentId":"759970ff6c1fec6f600000e1","content":"*Move forward with appreciation. Live in appreciation.\n*\n*It's ok to want and expect better, but don't let your expectations block you from feeling as great as possible now - as that is all we have. We can only make the best out of this NOW, and move towards better and future moments that feel great - BECAUSE OF WHAT WE HAVE LEARNED FROM HOW WE FELT THROUGH EXPECTATION TO APPRECIATION*"},{"_id":"75ad352d61b234224c0000af","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791940,"position":2,"parentId":"759970ff6c1fec6f600000e1","content":"THE DIFFERENCE IS FEELING AND SHARING APPRECIATION\n\nThat's what I do - I interact with people with appreciation, not expectation. I share the appreciation that I feel, showing understanding a gratitude for who the other person is, on their level and mine.\nWhen I'm off my game, it is because I feel more expectation than appreciation\n\nSIMPLE\n\nTEACH APPRECIATION"},{"_id":"75ace77761b234224c0000b0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186599,"position":1,"parentId":"75ad352d61b234224c0000af","content":"# `Feeling appreciation IS THE KEY\nLearning how to SHIFT your thinking to feel appreciation is CRUCIAL`\n\nWhen I feel crap about something, I just have to realise I feel crap about expecting something else, and then shift to what is great now - what I can feel through my senses\n\nRecent emails - was like, didn't want to do it, then I realised, I just made $260. Worth way more time than I was putting in, appreciative of the win, and the opportunity"},{"_id":"75ac26b2df31511fb40000b1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785131,"position":2,"parentId":"75ad352d61b234224c0000af","content":"People don't know how to / that they should share appreciation\n\nPeople don't know how to live through appreciation"},{"_id":"75ac25cfdf31511fb40000b2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785135,"position":3,"parentId":"75ad352d61b234224c0000af","content":"When are expectations ok?\n\nWhen dealing with a lack of understanding and care"},{"_id":"7599233c6c1fec6f600000e4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791935,"position":3.5,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"Answer these questions:"},{"_id":"75a5b9e0cef0fbb1e90000cc","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791973,"position":1,"parentId":"7599233c6c1fec6f600000e4","content":"I feel great WHEN X - ?\nI WILL feel great WHEN X - ?\nWe do it all to feel great. What if feeling great is the first step - ?"},{"_id":"75991a646c1fec6f600000e5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791942,"position":3.75,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"When are expectations OK?"},{"_id":"7593589d6c1fec6f600000f1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12794965,"position":3.875,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"When someone breaks your expectations"},{"_id":"7593584c6c1fec6f600000f2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186604,"position":1,"parentId":"7593589d6c1fec6f600000f1","content":"*We can feel hurt when our expectations aren't met, especially by those we care about.\n*\n*Appreciating their position, what lead to their behaviour is one of the best ways to heal and move forward with appreciation on your heart.\n*\n*When you respond with expectations, two similar forces collide, often preventing any from hearing and understanding the true message.\n*\n*Keeping calm, and moving towards feeling good, turning your expectation into appreciation can help the conflict resolve more effectively - helping you to feel good throughout more of the time, and actually heal the problem rather than covering it up with time and ignorance.*"},{"_id":"75934b7b6c1fec6f600000f3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186605,"position":2,"parentId":"7593589d6c1fec6f600000f1","content":"*When you feel hurt, you want the other person / party to know, so that they can understand and care, so you can feel better and so the problem hopefully doesn't happen again.\n*\n*Communicating your pain doesn't always work. Feelings can be hard to verbalise and communicate effectively, especially in the heat of a conflict filled moment.\n*\n*Realising, first and foremost that the primary desire is to feel good again, some of the best ways:\n*\n*Learn how to truly feel good WITHOUT any intervention or action from the other person. This doesn't mean consuming something else in great quantities that you drown out the bad feelings. It may mean connecting with something else in your life that feels good, that you love doing, that helps others also feel good. The idea is to not just be full of hurt feelings, but to balance them out with good feelings (NOT QUITE ACCURATE WITH NW RECENT CAROL CHAT RESOLUTION)\n*\n*The true solution is to find a way to turn your expectation into appreciation. Get better at working out if you what you expect is actually fair, for you and for others. Improve on your ability to understand the situation better, from all sides. Improve on your ability to feel appreciation for things, more so than expectations, WHILE also working towards achieving the things you want. We each first and foremost want to feel good. Find a way to feel good WHILE you improve upon and accomplish your expectations.*"},{"_id":"7599271b6c1fec6f600000e3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186613,"position":4,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"*How to share appreciation\nHow to show you care to those you care about*"},{"_id":"7593a0fb6c1fec6f600000ee","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186616,"position":5,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"*Feeling great - consumption (food)*"},{"_id":"7593a08d6c1fec6f600000ef","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12794895,"position":6,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"Feeling great - consumption (what you take in)"},{"_id":"75939b1b6c1fec6f600000f0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186619,"position":1,"parentId":"7593a08d6c1fec6f600000ef","content":"*This may sound a bit strange. We consume food and drink, for the primary function of feeling. While I consume things (do things), my awareness of the feelings I consume and share is ever growing.\n*\n*When I didn't have the awareness, when I was numb or disconnected, I did things without connecting and it lead nowhere.*"},{"_id":"759335b46c1fec6f600000f4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12795018,"position":7,"parentId":"7599774f6c1fec6f600000de","content":"# `Finding the balance point`"},{"_id":"759335596c1fec6f600000f5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186626,"position":1,"parentId":"759335b46c1fec6f600000f4","content":"*If can be tricky to balance wanting to help ourselves feel good and wanting to help others we cafe about feel good\n*\n*Eg. People working at a job they don't like, just to pay the bills for their family\n*\n*People doing what feels good more so for them, forsaking their loved one's feelings*"},{"_id":"759fcb3c802e0ab2f40000d9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790212,"position":0.00048828125,"parentId":null,"content":"NW GUIDELINES"},{"_id":"759fcac1802e0ab2f40000da","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790258,"position":1,"parentId":"759fcb3c802e0ab2f40000d9","content":"The whole point is to feel good\n\nYOU must feel good doing it, and it must help all feel good"},{"_id":"759faeb3802e0ab2f40000db","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790259,"position":1,"parentId":"759fcac1802e0ab2f40000da","content":"HAVING AND SHOWING MORE APPRECIATION - FOR EACH OTHER (cop, jay walking)"},{"_id":"759f5631802e0ab2f40000de","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791099,"position":0.000732421875,"parentId":null,"content":"How to help the most amount of people - ?\n\nDirect, education, or indirect feel good - ?"},{"_id":"75a0d1b0802e0ab2f40000d1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790016,"position":0.0009765625,"parentId":null,"content":"# The best way to help the world"},{"_id":"759f224d802e0ab2f40000df","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790508,"position":0.5,"parentId":"75a0d1b0802e0ab2f40000d1","content":"`Help them realise feeling is the WHY (truly feel good, you and all)\nHelp them find better ways to feel good`"},{"_id":"75a0d16c802e0ab2f40000d2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13172235,"position":1,"parentId":"75a0d1b0802e0ab2f40000d1","content":"# Improve our ability to feel and share appreciation - GET BACK TO APPRECIATION\n\nEverything is for feeling good.\n\nWe appreciate what we feel good about. It can be tricky to just 'feel good', as there are many factors that make up feeling good. However, we can improve our ability to feel appreciation whenever we want to."},{"_id":"75a13d69802e0ab2f40000ce","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186637,"position":2,"parentId":"75a0d1b0802e0ab2f40000d1","content":"*Feeling good via:\n*\nExpectation OR NUMBNESS OR Appreciation in:\n\n- Consumption\n- Creation\n- Connection\n\nConsuming to feel good\nCreating to feel good (taking action)\nConnecting to feel good"},{"_id":"75a13c40802e0ab2f40000cf","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790078,"position":1,"parentId":"75a13d69802e0ab2f40000ce","content":""},{"_id":"75a060ab802e0ab2f40000d6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790092,"position":3,"parentId":"75a0d1b0802e0ab2f40000d1","content":"Let things change your expectations for the better\n\nBut don't live through your expectations\n\nLive through appreciation"},{"_id":"75a05edd802e0ab2f40000d7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790093,"position":1,"parentId":"75a060ab802e0ab2f40000d6","content":"It can be very difficult to build from a place of expectations. The deficit or disappointment felt can negatively cloud things.\n\nThe best place to build from is appreciation."},{"_id":"759ff7ae802e0ab2f40000d8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12790180,"position":2,"parentId":"75a060ab802e0ab2f40000d6","content":"We live to feel good and help others feel good, but we must honour how we feel and improve on it AND because of it"},{"_id":"759cbec11d5cdc2a430000de","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12791217,"position":4,"parentId":"75a0d1b0802e0ab2f40000d1","content":"Dealing with others who don't understand as you do"},{"_id":"75a087c6802e0ab2f40000d5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186639,"position":0.001220703125,"parentId":null,"content":"We're all just trying to feel good.\n\n*People who feel good using power or force or control are also just trying to feel good. For whatever reason, they either don't know a better way to feel good, or their current lifestyle leads to a poor model for feeling good.*"},{"_id":"75a0baeb802e0ab2f40000d4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186642,"position":0.00146484375,"parentId":null,"content":"Balance of feeling great\n\nWhat are the guidelines to feeling good - ?\nDo what feels good, for you and all around you. There are some things that we shouldn't do in certain context"},{"_id":"75a85cab8a4dbd38510000c8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186646,"position":0.00390625,"parentId":null,"content":"*Feeling is the meaning of life\n*\n*Learning how to TRULY feel good, for us and for others is the purpose of our lives\n*\n*Lots of things feel good and bad. We each will go through many different types of feelings / experiences.\n*\n*You've got to get to the best feel good experiences - that's the whole point.\n*\n*If how you feel good makes others feel bad, you lose, others lose. WHY - ?\n*\n*Your experience is UNIQUE TO YOU - only you can figure out how to truly feel great - whatever that means - finding your purpose, living your purpose, living appreciation*"},{"_id":"75a80e298a4dbd38510000c9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186667,"position":1,"parentId":"75a85cab8a4dbd38510000c8","content":"We must know what we want\n*Know what it takes to get what we want\n*Feel good about doing what it takes\n\nUltimately - we want to feel good\nWhat it takes to feel good: (from where you are now)\nAppreciation\n*Knowing your purpose / what you like doing to feel good +`to help others feel good`\n*`LIVING THAT`\nConstantly learning how to truly feel good\n\n\nPeople simply don't know that feeling good is what it's all about for all of us. That we each play a role in each others feel good missions.\n\n# `WHY FEEL GOOD - ?`"},{"_id":"75a78e3ccb66b67de30000ca","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186669,"position":2,"parentId":"75a85cab8a4dbd38510000c8","content":"*Unmet / broken expectations can hurt\n*\n\n*They can force us to question what we once thought and felt about things - redefining our life and more specific contextual perspectives - ie. how we feel about ourselves, others, etc.\n*\n"},{"_id":"75a5befbcef0fbb1e90000cb","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186671,"position":3,"parentId":"75a85cab8a4dbd38510000c8","content":"Wants and intentions are good.\nNOT so much when they are tied to expectations."},{"_id":"75a1587c802e0ab2f40000cd","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186672,"position":4,"parentId":"75a85cab8a4dbd38510000c8","content":"*Feeling great is the mission, however that does not mean we shouldn't have bad feelings and times. We all need contrast.*"},{"_id":"75a13352802e0ab2f40000d0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":13186674,"position":5,"parentId":"75a85cab8a4dbd38510000c8","content":"*Feelings, especially in the moment can be hard to process. When we live for feelings, we can get stuck in the tricky moments.\n*\nPaul\n\nLive for feeling good\nWe got through tension to feel the release - ?"},{"_id":"75a932da8a4dbd38510000c2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785685,"position":0.0078125,"parentId":null,"content":"# `APPRECIATION`"},{"_id":"75a92fa58a4dbd38510000c5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785694,"position":0.5,"parentId":"75a932da8a4dbd38510000c2","content":"Group / frame appreciation in the different directions / relationships\n\nWork\nLoved ones\n\nOR\n\nUnmet expectation moments\n\nOR\n\nCombine both?"},{"_id":"75a9170f8a4dbd38510000c6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785696,"position":0.75,"parentId":"75a932da8a4dbd38510000c2","content":"# SKILLS"},{"_id":"75a931d78a4dbd38510000c3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785701,"position":1,"parentId":"75a9170f8a4dbd38510000c6","content":"Awareness #skill"},{"_id":"75a931248a4dbd38510000c4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785702,"position":2,"parentId":"75a9170f8a4dbd38510000c6","content":"Sharing - showing appreciation felt, and reciprocating"},{"_id":"75a9161b8a4dbd38510000c7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12786358,"position":3,"parentId":"75a9170f8a4dbd38510000c6","content":"All we have is THIS moment to feel good in and from - don't wait for some maybe future moment\nHOWEVER - move towards what feels good, improve what you do"},{"_id":"75a9e0f68a4dbd38510000c0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785541,"position":0.015625,"parentId":null,"content":"It's all about FUN - feeling great\n\nDon't be so serious"},{"_id":"75a9b5d58a4dbd38510000c1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785646,"position":1,"parentId":"75a9e0f68a4dbd38510000c0","content":"What do you do to feel good?\nDo you even live to feel good? Or do you delay it, or forsake it altogether? (For a someday feel good moment / milestone, or never feeling good?)\n\nEverything is consumption. Everything we see, eat and sense is consumption OF TH FEELINGS that come from that consumption.\n\nFIRST AND FOREMOST - don't consume anything without truly feeling it. Everything consumed should be appreciated and / or learned from, so that you can feel good / better in the future (better than today)"},{"_id":"75aabec58fda5abafe0000b5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785316,"position":0.125,"parentId":null,"content":"# WHY - ?"},{"_id":"75aabe818fda5abafe0000b6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785329,"position":1,"parentId":"75aabec58fda5abafe0000b5","content":"We do everything to feel something\n\nWe all want to feel good\n\nSo we are forever learning how to feel good\n\nGenerally, we feel bad in response to others feeling bad - so the solution is to ourselves and others FEEL GREAT\nEverything we do should be to help all feel great - that's the only way the system will work."},{"_id":"7f749ed5a608952a3e00010f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785357,"position":2,"parentId":"75aabec58fda5abafe0000b5","content":"Help people to feel something - that’s the point!"},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702163,"position":1,"parentId":"7f749ed5a608952a3e00010f","content":"All businesses and products are for FEELING\n\nThis is the major aspect businesses don't focus on - **HOW DO YOU MAKE THE CLIENT FEEL GOOD?**"},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d73","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702181,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d74","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702182,"position":2,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d72","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702183,"position":3,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702184,"position":4,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d76","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702187,"position":5,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008da5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702188,"position":6,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d77","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702189,"position":7,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d71","content":""},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008da3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752767,"position":2,"parentId":"7f749ed5a608952a3e00010f","content":"LIFE is for feeling good\n\nGetting out of things that don't feel good\nDoing more of what feels good\n**Getting used to feeling again**\n\nThinking is for FEELING"},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752787,"position":3,"parentId":"7f749ed5a608952a3e00010f","content":"All businesses and products are for FEELING\n\nThis is the major aspect businesses don't focus on - **HOW DO YOU MAKE THE CLIENT FEEL GOOD?**"},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12727032,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726905,"position":2,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726906,"position":3,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726907,"position":4,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f5","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726908,"position":5,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f6","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726909,"position":6,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726910,"position":7,"parentId":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f0","content":""},{"_id":"5a969bab5e8d84f9270335f8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752788,"position":4,"parentId":"7f749ed5a608952a3e00010f","content":"LIFE is for feeling good\n\nGetting out of things that don't feel good\nDoing more of what feels good\n**Getting used to feeling again**"},{"_id":"75aad74f8fda5abafe0000b3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785304,"position":0.25,"parentId":null,"content":"HOW TO BEST HELP PEOPLE"},{"_id":"75aad6dd8fda5abafe0000b4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785331,"position":0.5,"parentId":"75aad74f8fda5abafe0000b3","content":"Unless they ask, people don't want advice - they want to feel good"},{"_id":"7f749ab3a608952a3e00010d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":10854869,"position":1,"parentId":null,"content":"THE FEELS HQ"},{"_id":"75aaae1a8fda5abafe0000b7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785345,"position":0.5,"parentId":"7f749ab3a608952a3e00010d","content":"# `LESSON 1`\n\nWe are here to feel, and we are here to learn how to truly feel good, for ourselves and for those we care about"},{"_id":"7f749e64a608952a3e00010e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785336,"position":1,"parentId":"75aaae1a8fda5abafe0000b7","content":"THE MEANING OF OUR LIVES"},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12757438,"position":1.125,"parentId":"7f749e64a608952a3e00010e","content":"The meaning of life is to FEEL and to live from and for that feeling"},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db7","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12701815,"position":1,"parentId":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db4","content":"It's very common for people to live from thought, rather than from feeling.\n\nThis is a somewhat decisive topic - as to live for pleasure alone can lead to shallow and poor choices. However, feeling is the only reason why we are alive. The meaning of our lives is feeling. How we feel is how we experience life.\n\nWhat we feel greatest for is often what we care for the most."},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008daf","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702001,"position":1,"parentId":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db7","content":"We need to think, to frame how we feel, however the point of life is not thought. It is the balance of feeling and thought - TRUE CONSCIOUSNESS"},{"_id":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dbe","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12701999,"position":3,"parentId":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db4","content":"It's also very common for people to shut off their feelings - to become numb and disconnected, often because of challenging moments of conflict."},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785340,"position":3,"parentId":"7f749e64a608952a3e00010e","content":"We do EVERYTHING for the FEELING\n\nFeeling great is not the absence of feeling bad - it is the moment when you go from feeling the challenge and conflict to feeling the appreciation and peace"},{"_id":"75edac2fcbccde23dd0000a8","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785338,"position":2,"parentId":"75aaae1a8fda5abafe0000b7","content":"THE PURPOSE OF OUR LIVES"},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008db0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752766,"position":1,"parentId":"75edac2fcbccde23dd0000a8","content":"The purpose of our lives is to learn how to truly feel great, for ourselves and for those we care about - IN THIS MOMENT and so that FUTURE moments feel great"},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008da2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785339,"position":2,"parentId":"75edac2fcbccde23dd0000a8","content":"We are forever learning how to truly feel great - throughout the many phases and stages of our lives"},{"_id":"761dde4ff3069a34a60000a1","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785359,"position":0.78125,"parentId":"7f749ab3a608952a3e00010d","content":"How do you currently feel good?"},{"_id":"761dde51f3069a34a60000a0","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752719,"position":1,"parentId":"761dde4ff3069a34a60000a1","content":"Do you feel having power? Feeling arrogance and control?"},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008d99","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785360,"position":2,"parentId":"761dde4ff3069a34a60000a1","content":"What do we all want to feel?"},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008d9a","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785362,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9239275e8d84f927008d99","content":"Understood\nCared for\nPart of something\nHaving purpose, and accomplishing that purpose\n"},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008d9b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12701348,"position":2,"parentId":"5a9239275e8d84f927008d99","content":""},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008dab","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785346,"position":1.0625,"parentId":"7f749ab3a608952a3e00010d","content":"# `LESSON 2`\nThe greatest ways to feel great"},{"_id":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dca","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785349,"position":0.375,"parentId":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008dab","content":"What do you want to feel?\n\nWe each have to decide - do we want to feel, and what do we want to feel"},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008dae","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12702165,"position":1,"parentId":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dca","content":"What feelings motivate you?\n\nSome are compiled by preventing disappointment\n\nSome by wanting positive outcomes\n\nPURPOSE - Some by accomplishing a milestone which they have assigned great value to\n\nMaking things better"},{"_id":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d70","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12707287,"position":2,"parentId":"5a92392d5e8d84f927008dca","content":"`We all want to feel great. When we don't know how to truly feel great, we create conflict around us`\n\n`This is especially true for people with either / both low awareness and poor ability to help others feel good`"},{"_id":"5a9239275e8d84f927008da4","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12707289,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9238e85e8d84f927008d70","content":"Michael Scott"},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752799,"position":0.75,"parentId":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008dab","content":"APPRECIATION\n"},{"_id":"75ed8f61cbccde23dd0000a9","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752804,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":"Appreciation is the highest feeling we can experience"},{"_id":"75e2a8cdd965e7dbbf0000aa","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12757319,"position":1.5,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752806,"position":2,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":"Sharing the feeling of appreciation with others completes the circle"},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752986,"position":3,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726844,"position":4,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033510","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726845,"position":5,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033512","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726847,"position":7,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033514","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726849,"position":9,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699885e8d84f927033517","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726852,"position":12,"parentId":"5a9699885e8d84f92703350b","content":""},{"_id":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008dac","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752798,"position":1,"parentId":"5a92392a5e8d84f927008dab","content":"# Appreciation VS Expectation\nThe best way to both feel great yourself, and to help others feel great is through **appreciation**\n\nAppreciation comes in 3 parts:\n1. 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I feel lost in the mornings, disconnected from things.\n\nI just realised that I struggle UNTIL I feel appreciation. Appreciation comes in the form of consumption or creation with a great feeling."},{"_id":"5a9699f65e8d84f927033559","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12784581,"position":1,"parentId":"75ae215861b234224c0000ac","content":"Living from disconnection, expectation or appreciation\n\nThat's our choice\n\nConsumption to feel something is the first step - consuming the right THINGS is necessary"},{"_id":"75adbd3261b234224c0000ae","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12784582,"position":2,"parentId":"75ae21b461b234224c0000ab","content":"People seem to find it hard to realise that everything is for feeling"},{"_id":"7602cacbf680a7aa500000a3","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12785356,"position":3,"parentId":"75ae21b461b234224c0000ab","content":"FEELIES"},{"_id":"7602cacdf680a7aa500000a2","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752774,"position":1,"parentId":"7602cacbf680a7aa500000a3","content":"We can't help who we fall in love with\n\nLove is appreciation at it's greatest\n\nLove is a feeling, that can be attributed rightly and wrongly to people who may or may not fit"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12752792,"position":2,"parentId":"7602cacbf680a7aa500000a3","content":"More thoguhts\n"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351e","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726856,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351f","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726857,"position":2,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f927033520","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726858,"position":3,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f927033522","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726860,"position":5,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f927033523","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726861,"position":6,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f927033524","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12726862,"position":7,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":""},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f927033529","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12745470,"position":8,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":"How do we BEST HELP the world to feel more appreciation?"},{"_id":"5a9699995e8d84f927033528","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12745418,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f927033529","content":"We help people feel great and greatly, that THEY share the content"},{"_id":"5a9699f65e8d84f92703355b","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12745432,"position":1,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f927033528","content":"How you react to someone NOT meeting your expectations will almost always result in UNMET expectations, and both parties not feeling great\n\nBesides effective communication about how you feel and how to do better, one of the best ways to move forward is to feel appreciation for what is already there for you. Changing your awareness - \"it's not what you are looking at, it's what you see\"."},{"_id":"5a969c9f5e8d84f927033653","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12745471,"position":9,"parentId":"5a9699995e8d84f92703351d","content":"Come from appreciation, even when criticising\n\nTRUE APPRECIATION - of what is real and felt - don't force it, but get there in your own time before criticising"},{"_id":"5a969c9f5e8d84f927033654","treeId":"7f749a77a608952a3e00010b","seq":12736068,"position":1,"parentId":"5a969c9f5e8d84f927033653","content":"We should all be with someone who helps us to feel great. Whom we feel great being with.\n\nAlong the way, relationships change - the eb and flow of our own journey to feel great can mean that we don't always accomplish helping our partner feel great.\n\nThe solution is not to just break up with someone (unless that is absolutely how you feel). 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