Fly in Fly out Sex
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LIST OF TOPICS
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How to get the sex you desire when fly in and fly out
Communication while away
General expectations while away
- Kids
- House stuff
Create sexting rules
Why she might be all into when u r away and not when you are there
The night you fly back in
- While you are there
- the night you fly back
What is your roster
- how that affects your expectations
How much alone time do you have together when u r back
- What does she say she needs to feel more connected and able to desire sex
Create Relationship time
- time for relationship
- less pressure to have sex
How your label it matters
- find you ways of talking about sex
Counting how often you have sex
Planning for sex
Hug exercise
Kiss exercise
No groping
Move in slow
Move in passionately
It’s not your fault - so many rejections - you are not sitting in your masculine
feeling rejected
The in between phase
preforeplay
Foreplay
why foreplay is a must
Moving away from desire and towards intimacy, arousal and sex
Focusing on arousal
take your time - why rush
lubricant
don’t say no just to prove a point
when she is saying no it’s not because she is trying to set you up or to be mean - but you are being mean
She finally wants it so you reject her to show her what it feels
hang on have you not been preaching the opposite for like- forever.
remember flirting
sexual energy oftern does does travel with you from location a to location b so enjoy locations a
a less pressure in location a to have sex, so it can raise that sexual feeling
aim is to lighten the topic of sex -
to bring talking about it back on the menu - to get rid of the negativity and heaviness
allows for moments of connection even when u r not having sex
announce when u r not going to have sex
this is not an easy one to descrie
its so that if you are being amazing and u dont plan on bugging her that night if she doesnt know that then she is still on high alert and it has not been a break for her and you dont get acknowledged eaither
need to find code words that don’t set you guys off
trial and error - wont know how you will respond until the time
how stress affects our libido
What if you cant perform
last as long as u want to
watch to much porn
how our thoughts take us out of our body into our heads
whatever you do try not to take her out of her body
when she has the higher libido
kids