Fly in Fly out Sex Book - working ideas on layout of concepts eg JSA - Job Safety Analysis CHECKLIST - power tools - equipment - Hygiene http://www.ccohs.ca/oshanswers/hsprograms/list_gen.html LIST OF TOPICS Packages E Book Printed Book Book Plus Video Access How to get the sex you desire when fly in and fly out Communication while away General expectations while away - Kids - House stuff Create sexting rules Why she might be all into when u r away and not when you are there The night you fly back in - While you are there - the night you fly back What is your roster - how that affects your expectations How much alone time do you have together when u r back - What does she say she needs to feel more connected and able to desire sex Create Relationship time - time for relationship - less pressure to have sex How your label it matters - find you ways of talking about sex Counting how often you have sex Planning for sex Hug exercise Kiss exercise No groping Move in slow Move in passionately It's not your fault - so many rejections - you are not sitting in your masculine feeling rejected The in between phase preforeplay Foreplay why foreplay is a must Moving away from desire and towards intimacy, arousal and sex Focusing on arousal take your time - why rush lubricant don't say no just to prove a point when she is saying no it's not because she is trying to set you up or to be mean - but you are being mean She finally wants it so you reject her to show her what it feels hang on have you not been preaching the opposite for like- forever. remember flirting sexual energy oftern does does travel with you from location a to location b so enjoy locations a a less pressure in location a to have sex, so it can raise that sexual feeling aim is to lighten the topic of sex - to bring talking about it back on the menu - to get rid of the negativity and heaviness allows for moments of connection even when u r not having sex announce when u r not going to have sex this is not an easy one to descrie its so that if you are being amazing and u dont plan on bugging her that night if she doesnt know that then she is still on high alert and it has not been a break for her and you dont get acknowledged eaither need to find code words that don’t set you guys off trial and error - wont know how you will respond until the time how stress affects our libido What if you cant perform last as long as u want to watch to much porn how our thoughts take us out of our body into our heads whatever you do try not to take her out of her body when she has the higher libido kids