#Commitment (Improvement Goal)
Describe the change you want to make in your life that will make your life better.
Example: “I will walk at least 10,000 steps every day”
Based on Immunity To Change by Robert Keegan. Available at http://www.amazon.com/dp/1422117367/?tag=googhydr-20&hvadid=32997694345&hvpos=1t1&hvexid=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9876813675512769984&hvpone=20.05&hvptwo=&hvqmt=b&hvdev=c&ref=pd_sl_55vywpcm53_b
List the things you are doing instead of the change.
Example: I watch TV all evening.
What are the commitments behind my actions?
Example: I am afraid I might fall down and never walk again.
Keep working on this list - especially your fears until you have a feeling of “Oh, Sh*t! That’s why I’m not changing!”
These are the beliefs that lie behind your hidden commitments.
Example: People my age often fall and never recover.
After you list these big assumptions, challenge them, test them. Are they true? Are they reasonable? Don’t expect this to move fast, because these are deeply ingrained in your psyche. But getting them out on the table can help a lot.