“Why are we doing this?”
You start with a rough idea:
Our web site is out of date and does not reflect our primary focus and work
This is a two-step process to clarify your purpose.
Example: We want to move. We want to move because we don’t have enough space for our stuff.
Why?
Hmm, a different way of saying that is: because we have more stuff than space.
Why?
Because we often buy things to try to improve our lives.
Why?
Because we feel our lives are too chaotic. We can never find what we need, we are constantly cleaning but there’s always more.
It’s just too much!
Why?
Ah! Because we have too much crap!
Vicious cycle. We don’t need more space (we’ll probably fill it anyway). We need fewer things, and a better life flow.
We want to move because we feel our place isn’t nice enough. It doesn’t reflect us.
Why?
Because I’m ashamed of the state of it when guests come over.
Fear and Shame are a powerful blinders, and very often stop us from seeing the most direct path to reaching our true purpose.
Examples:
“It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that things are difficult.”
― Seneca“Have no fear of perfection - you’ll never reach it.”
― Salvador Dalí
Now that you’ve found your True Purpose, and named your fears, is the project you had in mind initially the only way of accomplishing it?
(hint: the answer is always “No, there are other ways.”)
Before proceeding, answer this:
“What if I couldn’t what I initially planned to do. What would be three other ways of accomplishing the True Purpose?”
Then choose either the initial project, or one of the alternatives.
You’ve found your True Purpose and the right project to move it forward.
Move to a bigger house.
Get rid of clutter & simplify.
Find the top three things about our current home that complicate our lives, and change them.
Maybe it’s no so much the space, but what we choose to do in it. We might be happier if we focused on finding activities we all enjoy. Have friends over more often? Games as a family?
You start with a vague set of priorities (different for each person), and a vague set of constraints.
The goal of this phase is to have a concrete shared list of principles and constraints, that everyone can commit to and honor.
Principles:
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2. .
3. .
Constraints:
1. .
2. .
What’s important to each of you?
Can you answer this question:
"I would give other totally free reign to do this as long as they _____________."
Make do with what we have Less is more, especially if it’s fewer better things. Maybe we do need to move, but not to a bigger house, but a different city? A small town? A different country? Maybe there’s a place for us that just fits with our vision of a more peaceful, wholesome life? Challenge assumptions, especially the assumption that “Oh, we simply need to have” some particular thing. What constraints will you commit to? “The human race built most nobly when limitations were greatest and, therefore, when most was required of imagination in order to build at all.” “I decided to write a song based on the first thing I saw upon opening any book… I picked up up a book at random, opened it, saw “gently weeps,” then laid the book down again and started the song.” “What do we want?” The goal of this phase is to have a clear, concrete image of what “wild success” looks like. Find or create images that evoke (not necessarily explain) what success will look like. Quite simply, close your eyes and daydream. If you’re working with someone, take part in each other’s dream: “How are things now?” The goal of this phase is to see, really see, the state of things as they are now. “What are some ways we can accomplish this?” The goal of this phase is to produce as many ideas as possible. Gather as many people as you can for this stage, to get as many ideas as you can. Start throwing ideas out there as they come. Four simple Rules: Some random idea Another even crazier idea Another one. Random word generator Random phrase generator Random images here More Random Images Use “What if” questions to trigger the imagination. Visible, physical actions. Start with general groupings, break it down until you get to “surely doables”, then stop.
Then clarify and organize.
Alternative 4
Inviolable Constraints
What firm deadline?
What firm budget?Quotes on Constraints
― Frank Lloyd White
― George Harrison3. Outcome Envisioning
Gather Inspiration
Dream
Refine your dream by asking questions.
4. Current State
5. Brainstorming
Idea List ( ideas so far)
Creativity Techniques
(edit card to get a new one)
6. Next Actions
Overview
First physical, visible action step.
Another multi-part action step
Another next action. @john